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Miffi's back and this time she's gonna do it properly!

Hey guys
Some of you may vaguely remember me as I was a regular(ish) poster a while ago and then dissappeared.

I found it really hard to keep up with being good with my money, but I did find that coming on to this site helped. But I really let it slip in the run up to my wedding, I couldn't concentrate on saving/spending wisely and generally felt overwhelmed by it all (and very crap).

But I am married now and the last bit we owe for it (reception venue) will be paid tomorrow and that will be that. We did go careful witht the wedding and not overboard, but it was still an expense that my bank account certainly felt!

Anyway, I'm back and this time I'm going to do it properly...once I've posted this I'm going to look at the other recent threads to get me in the money saving mood and then draw up my attack plan.

I've got a good incentive to get straight as we would like to move house as soon as possible, but need to ditch the debt first - so going to remind myself of that if I feel I'm slipping.

So guys, your advice for my plan of attack, general support and usual fab tips are going to be very much needed!

Miffi's back!

:beer:

Comments

  • Welcome back. Congratulations and good luck for your marriage.
    'You can't change the past, you can only change the future' Gary Boulet.

    'Show me the person who never makes a mistake and I'll show you the person who never makes anything'. Anon
  • cattie1
    cattie1 Posts: 2,068 Forumite
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    well done, congrat for marriage, me n OH want to get married but decided we can't afford it-it's just too expensive these days-i want church not register office!
    official dfw nerd club member no 214
    Proud to be dealing with my debts!;)
    Why is a person that handles your money called a broker?!:confused:
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    Well done for coming bakc Miffi & congrats on being married!

    You know the drill surely? :rotfl:

    Repeat after me, PAYG, SOA, freeview LOL
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • D&DD
    D&DD Posts: 4,405 Forumite
    Hi Miffi congratulations on the wedding :D I've not been about myself much ..life has a way of overtaking sometimes :rolleyes: Good to see you still have the spirit to sort yourself out well done!
  • Queen.Bess
    Queen.Bess Posts: 1,062 Forumite
    Hi Miffy! Welcome back and congratulations on your wedding! I hope you and Mr Miffy are settling down well as newlyweds!
    Official DFW Nerd Club #20 :cool: Proud To Be Dealing With My Debts :D DFW Long Hauler #109 :o

    Slowly, Slowly = Oct '09: £30693, Aug '15: £14820. Could Be Debt Free April 2020, but hoping for sooner!
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
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    Echoes from the above!

    Well done for finding your way back to us and Congratulations on tying the knot.

    Moving house is a great incentive to clear those debts.
    Like Lynz said, you know the drill. An up to date SOA? Then we can all help you climb back aboard!
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • Verbatim
    Verbatim Posts: 4,831 Forumite
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    Welcome back and congratulations on your marriage.

    Well done for paying off your wedding expenses and not piling it on the cards! :T :T :T
    CCs @0% £24k Dec 05 £19,621.41 Au £13400 S 12600 Oct £11,981 £9481 £7500 Nov £7250 D £7100 Jan 6950 F £5800 Mar£5400 May £4830 June £4660 July £4460 Aug £3200, S £900, £0 18/9/07 DFW Nerd 042
  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
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    Hi Miffi

    I was reading an old thread yesterday you had started and wondered where you had got to. Congratulations and welcome back.
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