Just need some TLC......

Lindylou54

Feeling very down today, nothing seems to happen fast enough. Just had words with OH because I am down.

Sometimes I feel in a catch two situation, can't get the house done to sell, because OH is at work long hours to try to service our debts. Because of our ages I feel the next 5/6 years will be spent trying to pay off our debt, then we will retire and have no income to spend some time together.

I feel sometimes that I will die never going anywhere or seeing anything and it depresses me, but feel if I say anthing to OH he gets down too as he blames himself for the situation we are in.

sorry feeling sorry for myself today, but don't have anyone else I can sound off at.

lightatendoftunnel?

Lindylou sending many happy positive thoughts your way. I know what you mean. Some days are worse than others, feeling will i ever get out of this. But think of the positives its a struggle now but it will be worth while, your moving in the right direction.
Hugs coming your way

corrig24

Its justs one of those days, this site is so diverse, if you have a good luck you are bound to come accross items with good humour, that will cheer you up. And loads of stories from other people in similar and perhaps worse situations to yours.:grouphug:((((Hugs))))):grouphug:

Lindylou54

Thanks for your encouragement, but today I don't feel that there can be many other situations that are worse than ours, and that's because of our ages, my OH is 59 and I am 55. It is ironic that for the first time in my life I have a qualification and my income has increased and now it is all going to service my OH's debt. I must have done something very bad in a previous life!

LittleL_4

Lindylou, 55 is soooo young nowadays. My gran an gramps are in there 90's and still going strong. Hun, things will get better, I'm going through a crap time just now too, so if you cheer up then I will too.

Sending comforting hugs your way :grouphug:

Little L
x

CLAPTON

don't really know enough about your situation to comment except about the house.
any house will sell irrespective of its condition...get an estate agent round now, before winter sets in and get a valuation and ask their view about the work you are planning. you'll probably find that the work you're planning won't increase the value by your level of spending.

In_Search_Of_Me

How you feeling today? Just wanted to send a hug & to remind you - life begins at 40 so you're only 15!!

chelly63

Hi
Some days are real down days, we all get them and they can be so hard and lonely and its hard to stay positive, for the negatives, but it will pass (((((((((Hug)))))))) just remember your so not alone, and you are sure to find us here and ready to understand how your feeling, tomorrows another day.
Hugs Michelle

QueenB.

These days/weeks are a regular for all of us, i am in a similar mood at the moment as it seems that for some reason we are as badly off this month as we where before we started tackling our debt earlier this year:o .

Try and keep positive its the only thing we can.

:grouphug: