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Dress colour?

Hi, this is probably a really stupid question, but is it OK for a guest to wear a white dress with a floral pattern on to a wedding? I know wearing a plain white dress is a big no-no, but does the pattern make it OK?!

Thanks :)

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  • Emu53
    Emu53 Posts: 91 Forumite
    I would say it depends on how much of a pattern it has? if its mainly white I personally wouldnt, but if it is quite colourful it should be ok? could you ask the bride what she thinks of the dress? at least you'd know for sure then
  • My MIL wore a white dress to my wedding:mad:. I didn't know till I got to church and was NOT happy!!!! My mum rejected a cream suit so as not to wear the same colour as the bride!
  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    My guests can wear cream or white if they like...but if any of 'em turn up in purple like me I'll kill 'em :rotfl:
  • bubbles0169
    bubbles0169 Posts: 6,230 Forumite
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    i dont understand why its wrong to wear white to a wedding!
    i have gone before 'oh you cant wear white' but i dont know why?? it must have been peer pressure!
    i wore a white top with big red flowers to a night do once and im still here to tell the tale
    on the day alot of people complimented how nice it was
    that is a good idea though, to ask the bride if she minds
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    ellay864 wrote: »
    My guests can wear cream or white if they like...but if any of 'em turn up in purple like me I'll kill 'em :rotfl:

    And me!
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  • GEEGEE8
    GEEGEE8 Posts: 2,440 Forumite
    A guest at my mums wedding wore a wedding dress pretty much!! she was a bit of a tart tho.. the worst thing was, tart or not, she had a nice figure and i know my mum was upset because she felt upstaged.

    I would personally avoid white at all costs.. lol
    9/70lbs to lose :)
  • LondonDiva
    LondonDiva Posts: 3,011 Forumite
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    No problem - most people attending know who the bride is, so there won't be any confusion.
    It's only a recent thing that lots of people have become anxious about the colour of the guests' outfits.

    If your outfit is not 'bridal', there's no problem. Problem is if you have a bridezilla who may be insecure.
    "This is a forum - not a support group. We do not "owe" anyone unconditional acceptance of their opinions."
  • Dee-Dee
    Dee-Dee Posts: 268 Forumite
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    You could try asking the Bride if she minds, she may not have a problem with it. I personally think that guests should stay clear of white, cream, ivory etc or purple if that is what the bride is wearing :D
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