OH and 34 yr DMP

chelly63

Thankyou Donna
I think that feeling alone, scared and isolated is the worst feeling about all of this. Also its so easy to panic and start worry over the worst things and with the correct infomation, you then come to realise, that you have paniced for nothing.
I was really worried about charging orders etc, because I did not understand or have the facts about them, now I know that they can only be place after a ccj has been place and then that too has failed.

I also paniced last week, when we got a letter saying about the shortfall on our morgage in 12 years time, my darling Sister in the Usa has a policy due out at that time and if indeed it does fall short, she is going to sort that.
I have valued having the support here and also been looking at the tips too.
My main focus at the moment is to try and be positive and stop worrying, as I now have the OH and children, worrying about my health and that is not good.
Michelle