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Actually had a Collections Visit!

I actually had one, and I am shaking.


I was good girl - from lots of threads and posts here, I did not open my door (I check ALL callers now before I open the door) and spoke to him through the Window.

All I said was to put it in writing - he said he has - I mention No, not just for me to call you as I will not speak to you on the phone. Put your query actually in writing please.

Then I shut the window and closed the curtains.

I am supposed to go out this afternoon to My Nans in 20 mins! Whats the possibility of him coming back? And My fence was broken whilst I was out this morning - I didn't think anything of it, but someone has climbed over it into the back garden - it may possibly have been him do you think???

Ooooo...........

(And it was Close Assistance)

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  • skylight
    skylight Posts: 10,720 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Home Insurance Hacker!
    Well, I am off out. Spoke to Hubby and feel a bit better.

    I know he's not coming back. But I have locked the windows, all doors and locked the internal doors too. And pulled all the curtains!

    Silly me! Feel like a paranoid berk!
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Poor you - haven't got any advice to offer really, it sounds like you did the right thing, but hope you're okay & fully recovered from the trauma! Love Snaggles xx
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  • I actually had one, and I am shaking.


    I was good girl - from lots of threads and posts here, I did not open my door (I check ALL callers now before I open the door) and spoke to him through the Window.

    All I said was to put it in writing - he said he has - I mention No, not just for me to call you as I will not speak to you on the phone. Put your query actually in writing please.

    Then I shut the window and closed the curtains.

    I am supposed to go out this afternoon to My Nans in 20 mins! Whats the possibility of him coming back? And My fence was broken whilst I was out this morning - I didn't think anything of it, but someone has climbed over it into the back garden - it may possibly have been him do you think???

    Ooooo...........

    (And it was Close Assistance)
    Aww well done you!! You didn't give in!!
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  • Hugs and more hugs. Shut all windows (lock them if they have locks) and lock the door. Go out and live your life. You did the right thing., don't let them get to you thats why they do it. Pay what you can.
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  • LJD1_2
    LJD1_2 Posts: 2,173 Forumite
    That must have been horrid. Well done for dealing with it so well. Big hugs xx
    January budget
    Nothing left!
  • jen30_2
    jen30_2 Posts: 180 Forumite
    I hope you get over the trauma soon. Well done for not giving in and good luck. Hope you get it sorted soon.
    Keep Calm:cool: Smile :D , Enjoy!:dance:

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