Am I Daft

curly04

Hi Everyone

I went BR on the 17/11/09
I got an IPA but now in discussion with moonbeaver to stop this since my OH moved out.

Over the last few years I've had so much bad luck and some of you know the last few months have been really bad

But this morning I was sat at my mum and dads all upset, and mum asked me why i was so upset and the 2nd thing out of my mouth was because of my debt problems, thing is I no longer have any debts because I am BR

BR was 5 months ago and its hasn't hit until this morning I am debt free, is it just me or has anyone else felt like this?

dojoman

No you are not on your own, I have bad days and good days, but hopefully more good days now than bad.

sizzler

Your never alone curly things hit you at different times like when you are low.

Hope you ok

sizzler:)

katalyst2k

What i did was to remind myself each day i was actually debt free:T even though the feelings of being in debt seemed to loom over me everyday.

Your feelings will hopefully get much easier.Take care.

Kat

curly04

Sizzler

had a bad night, then my mum this morning going on and on and on
so then came the tears OOPs

off out now

speak soon Thanks

sizzler

Take care curly you know where I am:)

diddly74

We were declared BR on 15/3/10 and I still feel like we are in debt, I suppose and I hope things will start to feel easier once our OR interview is over on 20th April.

auldblerk

Mine was 29th and still hasn't sunk in yet; mind you, I have over 20 years of constantly being in debt to shrug off so will take time I guess.

confused76

hi curly
so sorry to hear you've been upset this morning
i went br the same month as you, and to be honest i don't think it has sunk in for me either. maybe this is because money is very tight so it still feels like i'm in debt!
you've had a rough few months, things will get better for you i know it
you know where i am if you want to talk xxx

IF

Dear Curls, We are all with you and it comes out in so many different ways.
We all need a good cry every now and then! As confused said you know where we are. Your a Star and I admire you greatly.
Lots of love
If...x

out_of_cash

i know all about the ups and downs with br, mine was 18mths ago now and although i am positive i made the right choice ,i just wished my other half could of stuck by me .

I just cant wait to get a job again as i am going to feel rich.lol.