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HappyDaze_3
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Hi everyone
I'm a little bit nervous as this is all new to me so not sure if I'm even doing it right! I've been reading the DFW boards for a while now and have decided to pluck up the courage to share my debt woes. The bottom line is I'm useless with money - don't know where it stems from, I'm the only one in my (immediate) family in debt - £26,840 to be precise :eek:. And I'm worrying myself sick about it. Nobody knows except me (and anyone reading this)
I have taken advice from this forum, have stopped stressing about why or how I got here and am focussing on moving forward. I just wanted to get it off my chest. It is so reassuring knowing I am not the only one in this situation and that everybody who posts is brilliantly understanding and sympathetic... I have broken my (mostly credit cards) debt down into 'sizeable' chunks and set up a spreadsheet so each month I deduct my monthly payments and watch the balance decrease. Ok, it's not much but it's going in the right direction - down!
. I've stopped spending on rubbish and any 'spare' cash at the end of the month goes into paying off the CC with the highest balance.
I know it is going to be a long hard slog but I'm determined. Having seen others beat this I am inspired to keep trudging on and watching that big £26k number get lower.
Whether or not I continue to post or just keep reading other's advice I wanted to take the first step to sorting out the financial mess I'm in. So thank you for listening and any other advice you can give me is greatly appreciated (especially about what all the acronyms at the bottom of people's posts mean!
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I'm a little bit nervous as this is all new to me so not sure if I'm even doing it right! I've been reading the DFW boards for a while now and have decided to pluck up the courage to share my debt woes. The bottom line is I'm useless with money - don't know where it stems from, I'm the only one in my (immediate) family in debt - £26,840 to be precise :eek:. And I'm worrying myself sick about it. Nobody knows except me (and anyone reading this)
I have taken advice from this forum, have stopped stressing about why or how I got here and am focussing on moving forward. I just wanted to get it off my chest. It is so reassuring knowing I am not the only one in this situation and that everybody who posts is brilliantly understanding and sympathetic... I have broken my (mostly credit cards) debt down into 'sizeable' chunks and set up a spreadsheet so each month I deduct my monthly payments and watch the balance decrease. Ok, it's not much but it's going in the right direction - down!
I know it is going to be a long hard slog but I'm determined. Having seen others beat this I am inspired to keep trudging on and watching that big £26k number get lower.
Whether or not I continue to post or just keep reading other's advice I wanted to take the first step to sorting out the financial mess I'm in. So thank you for listening and any other advice you can give me is greatly appreciated (especially about what all the acronyms at the bottom of people's posts mean!
Debt at January 2011:
Bank loan: £2973.12; MBNA £437.41 ; Bank CC; £7000; Nat West CC £3554.41 Mint CC £4652.01 Next £333.39; Post Office £4532
Slow and steady wins the race...
Bank loan: £2973.12; MBNA £437.41 ; Bank CC; £7000; Nat West CC £3554.41 Mint CC £4652.01 Next £333.39; Post Office £4532
Slow and steady wins the race...
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Hi!
Well done for working out the grand total! That's the first hurdle. You seem like you've made a good start.
Maybe you could post your statement of affairs (incomings and outgoings) the wonderful people on here can help you to save money in the most unlikely of places!!
Hope you do keep posting as it's an inspirational place to be a part of!!
Good luck on your journey. I'm sure it will be life-changing! :-)0 -
Thanks so much for your support. Just doing this today has put a smile on my face and a light at the end of the tunnel. Will get to work on a statement of affairs. Watch this space!
Debt at January 2011:
Bank loan: £2973.12; MBNA £437.41 ; Bank CC; £7000; Nat West CC £3554.41 Mint CC £4652.01 Next £333.39; Post Office £4532
Slow and steady wins the race...0
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