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Major Debt, Any Advice? Please Help!

Hi, as the result of an bad divorce I am now in severe debt. I have £10K on 3 different credit cards, £10K on a personal loan and a £7K bank overdraft up to its limit. I earn £25K a year and am struggling!

I can pay my mortgage each month and just about cover the minimum repayments on my cards and loan each month. But it leaves me with virtually nothing. I keep going over my overdraft limit with my bank so they end up charging me on average £150 each month which makes the problem even worse month after month. I wrote to them and they refused to help me saying these were normal charges.

My credit rating is surprisingly good because in the past I've always been very good at handling my money. But this problem is now getting out of hand and I have no idea what to do. I cannot keep paying these amounts each month. I've had to sell anything I can find in my house on ebay to try and keep me afloat each month.

I just dont know what to do, and am getting quite desperate. I've tried to find another job to supplement my income without success.

Can anyone out there help me please?

Comments

  • gonzo127
    gonzo127 Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    hi and welcome

    first thing as ever when you want to tackle debt is to actually find out where you are financially the best way of doing this is with a SOA (statement of affairs) which you will need to sit down with a cuppa and fill in as accuratly and honestly as possible http://www.makesenseofcards.com/soacalc.html is the link to use

    once you have filled it out format it for MSE and post it up on here for us to try and help you spot areas of potential savings and any other ideas to help you

    the other advice i can give at the moment is to seek advice from one of the FREE debt charities who are CCCS, CAB, national debt helpline or payplan
    Drop a brand challenge
    on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
    10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
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  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    Hi and welcome

    Just wanted to say well done for coming on and looking for advice.

    I agree with Gonzo's action plan.
    Once you have a written monthly budget we can see just how far short you are of meeting your repayments, which will then help decide what is the best course of action.

    Additionally as you are have an overdraft and are getting charged it might be a good idea to set up a new bank account with a bank that you don't owe any money to, then move you salary etc across to the new account, this will help you control how you spend your money without having it all swept up in charges and leaving you short. Additionally if you frequently exceed your overdraft there is a chance that they will cancel your overdraft and 'use' all your pay etc to repay the debt leaving you with nothing to live on for a month.
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 1
    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1556
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1556

    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 420
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 86
    Electricity............................. 39
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 19
    Telephone (land line)................... 20
    Mobile phone............................ 45
    TV Licence.............................. 12.29
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 20
    Internet Services....................... 10
    Groceries etc. ......................... 80
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 60
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 29
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 15
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 8
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Bank Fees............................... 145
    Overdraft Interest...................... 45
    Bank Account Charge..................... 25
    Child Maintenance....................... 235
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1388.29


    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 220000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 221000


    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 192000...(420)......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 192000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Personal Loan..................10000.....117.......0
    Barclaycard....................5000......80........0
    Lloyds TSB Card................5000......100.......0
    Halifax Card...................5800......80........0
    Total unsecured debts..........25800.....377.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 1,556
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,388.29
    Available for debt repayments........... 167.71
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 377
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -209.29

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 221,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -192,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,800
    Net Assets.............................. 3,200
  • System
    System Posts: 178,426 Community Admin
    10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Hi Sanj,

    As well as looking at reducing your outgoings, you should also see if you can increase your income. Have you got an option to take in a lodger to help supplement your income? The government has a rent-a-room scheme whereby you can earn £4,250 a year tax-free just from that.

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/MoneyTaxAndBenefits/Taxes/TaxOnPropertyAndRentalIncome/DG_4017804

    Also have a look at this forum to see if there's anything else you can do:

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/forumdisplay.html?f=145

    Many of us on here do online paid surveys, 2nd jobs and focus groups to help increase our income, so you wouldn't be alone.

    Good luck.
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • System
    System Posts: 178,426 Community Admin
    10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    edited 15 March 2010 at 4:55PM
    Sanj wrote: »
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 1 Is this essential or could you do without it?
    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1556
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1556
    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 420
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 86 If you are living alone do you have the 25% single occupancy discount? Is this split over 12 months or 10? Swap to 12 months, if not already.
    Electricity............................. 39 Seems REALLY high. Mine is £12 a month for one person living in a 2-bed flat.
    Gas..................................... 40 I'm sure this could be reduced too. Try to see if switching suppliers will reduce it. Also turn down thermostat and turn unused radiators off.
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 19
    Telephone (land line)................... 20 Can this go?
    Mobile phone............................ 45 Very high! Try to lower your tariff or go PAYG.
    TV Licence.............................. 12.29
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 20 Get rid of this.
    Internet Services....................... 10
    Groceries etc. ......................... 80
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 60 Do you drive to work or can this be reduced? Can you do without the car altogether?
    Road tax................................ 0 You need something here if you have a car on the road.
    Car Insurance........................... 29 Shop around for cheaper insurance the next time it's due.
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0 You need something here.
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 15
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 8
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Bank Fees............................... 145
    Overdraft Interest...................... 45
    Bank Account Charge..................... 25
    Child Maintenance....................... 235
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1388.29

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 220000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 221000

    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 192000...(420)......0 Is this interest only or repayment? If not already, can you go interest only for a short while until you find your feet?
    Total secured & HP debts...... 192000....-.........-
    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Personal Loan..................10000.....117.......0
    Barclaycard....................5000......80........0
    Lloyds TSB Card................5000......100.......0
    Halifax Card...................5800......80........0
    Total unsecured debts..........25800.....377.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,556
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,388.29
    Available for debt repayments........... 167.71
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 377
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -209.29
    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 221,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -192,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,800
    Net Assets.............................. 3,200

    I've made some notes in red. I also notice that you have about £28k equity in the house. Is selling and moving to a cheaper property an option?
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    edited 15 March 2010 at 5:01PM
    Hi Sanj

    That was quick!
    Sanj wrote: »
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 1
    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1556
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1556
    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 420 is this a repayment mortgage?
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 86 do you claim the 25% single person discount?
    Electricity............................. 39 looks quite high for 1 person, do you have arrears? are your bills estimated or actual? have you checked recently to see if you are with the cheapest supplier and the best tariff? internet tariffs are cheaper than the standard tariffs.
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 19 is this on a meter?
    Telephone (land line)................... 20
    Mobile phone............................ 45 can you reduce this at all? ask if you can drop to a lower tariff?
    TV Licence.............................. 12.29
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 20
    Internet Services....................... 10 can you try combining landline, internet & tv to get cheaper than £50 per month, or switch to freeview and get combined landline & internet for £20.
    Groceries etc. ......................... 80
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 60
    Road tax................................ 0 need to budget 1/12 of the annual cost here
    Car Insurance........................... 29
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0 need to budget something for annual service, MOT, tyres etc
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0 do you never have any?
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 15
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 8
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Bank Fees............................... 145 :eek: open a new account then write to your bank with an offer to start repaying the OD, ask them to freeze interest & charges
    Overdraft Interest...................... 45 as above (although really you need to look up the APR and include it below in your debts.
    Bank Account Charge..................... 25 almost never worth paying for a premium account, cancel straight away.
    Child Maintenance....................... 235 is this the CSA figure?
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1388.29

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 220000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 221000

    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 192000...(420)......0 is this right? how long is the mortgage over? or is it interest only, do you have any plans in place for repaying the equity?
    Total secured & HP debts...... 192000....-.........-
    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Personal Loan..................10000.....117.......0 what are the APRS on all of these, look them up on your statements.
    Barclaycard....................5000......80........0
    Lloyds TSB Card................5000......100.......0
    Halifax Card...................5800......80........0
    Put your overdraft in here as well.
    Total unsecured debts..........25800.....377.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,556
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,388.29
    Available for debt repayments........... 167.71
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 377
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -209.29
    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 221,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -192,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,800
    Net Assets.............................. 3,200

    Hi Sanj

    You are clearly struggling and cannot go on as things are. I would suggest you talk to one of the debt charities - http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2077631
    about the options suitable for you.

    Do keep trying to find a second job. Is there any chance of payrise/promotion in your current job? or of you finding a better paid main job?

    Could you get a lodger to help with the costs perhaps?
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • miss_missy
    miss_missy Posts: 253 Forumite
    Sanj wrote: »
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 1
    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1556
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1556
    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 420
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 86
    Electricity............................. 39 can you try and reduce alittle? use a comparisions site to see if you can get a better deal
    Gas..................................... 40 same as above
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 19
    Telephone (land line)................... 20
    Mobile phone............................ 45 reduce this cheaper deal or try PAYG
    TV Licence.............................. 12.29
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 20
    Internet Services....................... 10
    Groceries etc. ......................... 80
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 60
    Road tax................................ 0 is your road tax free? if not you should budget for it
    Car Insurance........................... 29
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0 you need to budget something here
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0 you should budget a little here
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 15
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0 do you not buy any presents?
    Haircuts................................ 8
    Entertainment........................... 0 you should budget even a little something here
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0 you should put something here
    Bank Fees............................... 145 are these the charges for going over your overdraft?
    Overdraft Interest...................... 45 your overdraft and charges should be in you unsecured
    Bank Account Charge..................... 25 whats this? are you paying for your account?
    Child Maintenance....................... 235
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1388.29

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 220000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 221000

    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 192000...(420)......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 192000....-.........-
    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Personal Loan..................10000.....117.......0 what are the aprs on all your debts and if on special rates when do they end and what rate will they revert too
    Barclaycard....................5000......80........0
    Lloyds TSB Card................5000......100.......0
    Halifax Card...................5800......80........0
    Total unsecured debts..........25800.....377.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,556
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,388.29
    Available for debt repayments........... 167.71
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 377
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -209.29
    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 221,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -192,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,800
    Net Assets.............................. 3,200

    hi
    firstly well done for posting
    ive listed a few comments above but have to say i feel you really need to relook at your soa as i dont think you have listed everything, you need to be budgeting for car maintenance etc, and do you really not buy any presents or not spend anything on entertainment
    also you bank charge of 25 are you paying that for having the accounts as you really cant afford it
    i hate to say it but i think you prob have a bigger shortfall than it says above that may sound bad but we just have to work out ways of reducing your outgoings an upping your income, do you have anything to sell? can you get a lodger etc
    stay positive and remember there are always debt charties who you can talk to also
  • Thank you all so much for your quick replies.
    My mortgage is interest only and on base rate.
    My gas & electricity have just been changed to try and get a better deal
    Just phoned Orange who've now reduced my monthly bill to £30
    My car tax is £125 per year
    My father does my MOT's and maintains my car for free
    I spoke to my bank regarding the account charge, if I switch to a normal account, then I lose my preferential overdraft interest rate and I end up paying more each month
    Barclaycard 16.9% APR
    Lloyds TSB 0.945% Monthly
    Halifax 15.9% APR
    The telephone, Internet and TV is all with sky and is the cheapest I package I could find
    Council tax is with 25% discount

    Many thanks!
  • miss_missy
    miss_missy Posts: 253 Forumite
    Sanj wrote: »
    Thank you all so much for your quick replies.
    My mortgage is interest only and on base rate.
    My gas & electricity have just been changed to try and get a better deal
    Just phoned Orange who've now reduced my monthly bill to £30
    My car tax is £125 per year
    My father does my MOT's and maintains my car for free
    I spoke to my bank regarding the account charge, if I switch to a normal account, then I lose my preferential overdraft interest rate and I end up paying more each month
    Barclaycard 16.9% APR
    Lloyds TSB 0.945% Monthly
    Halifax 15.9% APR
    The telephone, Internet and TV is all with sky and is the cheapest I package I could find
    Council tax is with 25% discount

    Many thanks!
    car tax you need to budget about 11 per month
    does you father pay for any spares needed? what about tyres? if not you still need to budget something for these
    what is your current overdraft rate? what will it changes to? you really cant afford to pay 25 per month for your account i hate to sound harsh but your paying for an account with credit really as you can not possible be living off your wage without using credit
    you really need to open a new account with a diff bank and get wages payed into that then come to some agreement to pay off your overdraft and stop paying for an account you cant afford
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,544 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Sanj

    You need to be opening another basic bank account and think about moving you income into there ASAP.

    Then talkj to a debt charity like CCCS or NDL.

    Can you take a lodger by the way?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
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