Old geezers and gal's close to retirement on dmp's.!!

pure_dead_dopey

Oh Nanna it sounds awful, I have no experience as my kids haven't gotten married or had children yet but I do understand the fierce love you feel for your grandsons and son. Its really hard you just have to be there for them, they're 8 now so getting a wee bit sensible and will see that the life their mum offeres isn't really the best way. They will remember the happy times with you and your son when they are older and hopefully forget the not so good times with their mum (notice small m). Don't you go getting upset cos its not worth it and the boys wouldn't want to see you upset. Does he have to let them go?? Could he not invent a surprise event that he has to go to? It would be worth spending the cash to keep them at home.
Not all mum's are like you, I didn't have the benefit of a great mum, but can I tell you I noticed her deficiencies quite early, children are not daft.
So please don't cry, just keep on doing the job you are so good at, and ask your son to think about that surprise outing, wish we could have a whipround to sort out the cost.

sending hugs

PDDxx

elsie52

moneypenny2k wrote: »

Sorry I am here, I'm lurking and not feeling too bright. Weather is rubbish, most of my mates are abroad as it's half term week and I've got nothing nice to do that's not gonna cost me huge sums of cash (more than a fiver)
:mad:

Cheer up Moneypenny.

It would seem that you are in good company here, think we're all a bit fed up.

Right, I'm in the chair, who fancies a drink, but nothing fancy 'cos I don't know how to make them.:beer:

pure_dead_dopey

I'll have a bloody huge g&t, thank you Elsie, hope you are Ok. Just keep the positive thoughts going

PDDxx

nanna58

A feind sent me a bottle of baileys want sum

oops that should be friend:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

pure_dead_dopey

oooh over good vanilla ice cream, heaven on a plate!!!

elsie52

One Bloody big g & t coming up....do you want ice........ and Nanna lets crack that Baileys open, and I'll have a large one on the rocks.

pure_dead_dopey

thank you, that'll be lovely, I've got the ice cream Nanna

elsie52

I've just had a big ice cream sundae, so I'll give the ice cream a miss........just stick to the drink.

nanna58

Kkcrac tahw nepo hic hic hic:T:T:T

moneypenny2k

pure_dead_dopey wrote: »

och but summer is com ing then you'll be able to sit in the garden and have a Pimms, very MSE.

and you'll be able to join us on the next NSD night out, if you want to hoot like looney have a read at the previous one in Brighton on May Madness and Mayhem, might have slipped to about page 5/6 but worth the search, I was reaching for the Tena ladies a few times, let me tell you. and Hubert sends a bray

nanna58 wrote: »

PDD:(
Please please can i have a whinge:(
my boys "mom" sserves no purpose just causes problems upsets us all and makes me soooo angry:mad::mad:
.When she left son n boys, she told court she wanted them fri night till saturday . Thats what she has.while they are at home (which is opposite me) they are happy well adjusted polite and georgous. Saturdays they come home around 2 and are grumpy n miserable because she and her boyfriend took um to pubthe night before and they went to bed late.I do all the "mom" things sew buttons on clean shoes out plasters on etc.....she left saying she is not cut out to be a mom and wife.She got engaged again spends most of the time in a pub.She wants them 2mor and son doesnt want rthem to go but has to try to keep a balance as to not upset them as they are only 8(twins) cos they could end up blaming him. He has had to give up work to look after hid=s boys and they ar so close.At the moment i am shaking again and could sob at the drop of a hat :(

thanks for reading and i am sorry but i needed that:)

elsie52 wrote: »

I'm back, just been out with son and family for a meal. He is so upbeat about things, I can't believe how he is dealing with things.

Just need a cup of tea, and then early night......work tomorrow.

Thank you all for reminding me I've got nothing much to complain about. Sorry for being a grumpy guts. I'm off for an early night, gonna be back happy and jolly again tomorrow