Having courage to be honest

40somethingmum

ruby1968 wrote: »

do you get any help with him?

Not really ! The school is trying to get him statemented so that he can get extra help at school but since he isn't severly autistic it might not happen. Unfortunately he does have a lot of time of school which means I have to take time of work . Luckily the man I work for is very good about it. I don't know what I would do if I had a normal 9-5 job:eek:

I am sat here in tears at the moment as i am finding life very stressful right now:(

Love
40Smx

ruby1968_2

The amount of time i have sat and done that myself you are not alone ((hugs)) believe it's not easy, I have spent th past 17 years trying to get help for my DS my have never had any luck, it is very hard work and very emotionally draining is there any way you oh could help in the mornings just to get him to school? just to give you a break!! it's easy to want to give up when you know that you put your heart and sole into getting whats right for the kids.

thinking of you
rubsxx

40somethingmum

ruby1968 wrote: »

The amount of time i have sat and done that myself you are not alone ((hugs)) believe it's not easy, I have spent th past 17 years trying to get help for my DS my have never had any luck, it is very hard work and very emotionally draining is there any way you oh could help in the mornings just to get him to school? just to give you a break!! it's easy to want to give up when you know that you put your heart and sole into getting whats right for the kids.

thinking of you
rubsxx

Hi Ruby,

Unfortunately DH starts work at 6am so is not here to help. Although some mornings I have to call him home to help me. It is his day off today so he has done the school run:T:T.
Is your DS autistic ?

Pay day today so I should be feeling:j but instead I am feeling:(. I think I am going to go to Boots to see if they have anything ( herbal ) to pick me up

Have a lovely day. No doubt will catch up with you over the weekend.

Love

40SMxxx

ruby1968_2

:hello: good evening 40sm

well thats a tricky one to answer he has a number of difficulties and an unknown sydome(I say unknown because they haven't managed to to label it yet , which means he may never be able to have children, I also need to get DD checked when she is older) he also comes into the attention deficeit spectrum. so as you can imagine not easy, we just try and dal with it the best we can.

The amount of times I sit and wonder why me?

Did you manage to get something from boots, I was recommended Star Flower once did the trick for a short while, if not speak to your doctor please it my help.(((Hugs)))

Well I'm sitting here all alone just me and dog :j No DH,DD or DS all out for evening DD away on cadet camp for the weekend, DS out doing voluntary work till god knows what time in the morning and DH out with his mate for a couple of hours.

I hope your day has been a little better for you.:)

40somethingmum

Hi Ruby,

Anything nice planned for the weekend ? The weather is not looking great though is it ?


Love

40SMxx

ruby1968_2

:hello: morning hun, no not really, no money as per usual, but hay I'm sure i'll find something to do!!
recycle a curtain for my back door, have got one thats needs cutting down.:)

baking a cake (agin that must be 3 this week):)
need to clean the oven:eek: (might take a while)
have already done washing :T
sort out food cupboards and make a list what is in therre so hopefully keep shopping to a minimum next week.:)

what about you?

40somethingmum

My you are busy:). I have nothing much planned ( also no money) apart form colouring my hair . I will probably go into work tomorrow morning for a few hours as I desperately need to earn more ( see my diary). The way the kids are behaving this morning I may even go to work this afternoon for some peace !!;)

Have a good day,

40SMxx

ruby1968_2

Hi hun what do you do as self employment?

40somethingmum

ruby1968 wrote: »

Hi hun what do you do as self employment?

I work in accountants office preparing accounts so should be better with the finances:o:o


40Smxx

ruby1968_2

yep I can see that!! could you do it privately as well? it may help it's a shame i'm unable to help with that I have enough trouble with my own:rotfl:is there something else you could turn your hand too?:)