Finished its over

JW_here

After 5 years of paying CSA payments it over...last payment made today.

5 years of me paying and the csa computers saying no payment made..

5 years of me over paying and CSA computers not recognise my overpayments

5 years of ex-wife stating I was earning more and asking for a review of my accounts, however when I asked for a review as I was paying 76% of my income, was told NO.

Setting myself up as self-employed was given 6 months off paying... I still paid a lower amount
However after 6 months was up the CSA back date a new clamed 5 months still at 76% a high estimate of my income.. £682 per week.. ouch

IT OVER NOW
:beer:
:T:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Blonde_Bint

lol :rotfl:

might I give you my congratulations:T I'm pleased for your good fortune. how do you get along with the kids? perhaps this period in the kids lives will be a more pleasant one, free of a mum slinging mud and a stressed dad having to absorb every shot:D:p

Blonde_Bint

JW_here wrote: »

After 5 years of paying CSA payments it over...last payment made today.

5 years of me paying and the csa computers saying no payment made..

5 years of me over paying and CSA computers not recognise my overpayments

5 years of ex-wife stating I was earning more and asking for a review of my accounts, however when I asked for a review as I was paying 76% of my income, was told NO.

Setting myself up as self-employed was given 6 months off paying... I still paid a lower amount
However after 6 months was up the CSA back date a new clamed 5 months still at 76% a high estimate of my income.. £682 per week.. ouch

IT OVER NOW
:beer:
:T:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

laughing aside, I would be interested if you have a better relationship with your children now that the mess has been taken out of the equation:)

Sensemaya

Congratulations :beer:
But a word of warning. Keep all paperwork. The CSA might raise their ugly head again.

JW_here

Blonde_Bint wrote: »

laughing aside, I would be interested if you have a better relationship with your children now that the mess has been taken out of the equation:)

Relationship with my children,,,, at first it was good stopping with me weekends, weeks away, I was paying ex money each month all was well. then out the blue csa called me ( why i was paying ), however it happens.
Found out because I had my children stop with me I could get a discount.
My ex then stop my children stopping with me. More money for her.

The time I need to bond with them I had no money.. Paying it all to the csa.
my ex-marred again had a 3rd child told the CSA it was mine. Taken 3 years to prove it was not mine, didn’t get my money back.

my cards are always returned i.e. birthday and xmass less the money.
o-well putting it all behind me and moving on.

Blonde_Bint

Well i'll keep my fingers crossed, now the csa have taken their wooden spoon back you can get a life with your kids:) good luck mate its just you and the kids now no meddling from any quarter.

SuziQ

Just wanted to say,my husband went through similar with his ex wife and hasn't seen his oldest boys for over 6 years now. However,the ex's control freak new husband died last year,and his oldest has started chatting to him on facebook now-they are gradually rebuilding their relationship. Meanwhile his ex is trying to take him to court to have their youngest child's name changed to her dead spouse 'as a memoriam to him'. There are some bonkers pwc out there so you are certainly not alone,and you are right to keep a positive attitude about it all.