Nightmare

chelbel1981

I've been up since 5am I had a very disturbing nightmare

It was the day before the wedding and we discovered we didn't have the money to pay for the remainder.
I woke up physically crying after dreaming that on the morning of my wedding I have no one to do my make up or my hair, I had forgotten to order my tiara and veil and my shoes turned electric blue
I also had a call saying that they didn't have the colour car I wanted and would be sending a navy blue one


I cannot stop thinking about it
Do you think it's a sign???


I haven't even sorted any of the above yet

lisae03

It sounds like its just your mind working over time! You've got plenty of time yet, I'm getting married in May and haven't done half of what I should have done!

I had a dream the night before last that my hair and make up lady made me an hour late (she does my hair and is never on time) and then the wedding car didn't turn up and when I eventually got there half the guests had left!

fly_dragon_fly

awww honey honestly dont worry everyone has those dreams before there wedding like lisa said your mind is just in wedding over drive.

last night i feel in love another pair of wedding shoes by the same designer and literly could sleep as i was trying to work out how to get the money! (i'm asking everybody for money for my birthday when they ask what i want)( i've got 16 people coming bowling next thursday and if im correct £90 divided by 16 is £5.62 so easy!!!)

big hugs! x

madmumof2

It's just stress and nerves, it's not a sign don't worry!!

I keep having the same dream, I'm getting ready to get married and only realise as we're getting dressed that I've completely forgotten to buy bridesmaids dresses! I'm running around like a loony trying to find some dresses and end up missing the wedding.

I know that's because there are going to be a few issues with the dresses and all my bridesmaids (3 now, one has dropped out!) are different heights and sizes so I've told them to just pick a dress in the colour I want, but none of them seem to be in much of a rush to even look yet. I'll be shoving them in a purple bin bag if they don't pull their fingers out lol.

BeckyArch

Thats horrible! I had a nightmare the other night that it was the morning of the weeding and i realised that I hadn't made the cupcakes and that I had forgotten to go for the final fitting of my wedding dress so it didn't fit!

I think its just that we have so much on our minds that we often dream about the things we really don't want to happen. I don't think its a sign, its just stress as others have said above!

It is horrible to have the dreams because they feel so real at the time!

bubble96

dont worry chelbel, ive had a few of these, its just because its at the forefront of your mind and is so very important to you, it will all be fine, talk it over with your oh and try to laugh at how bizzare some parts are - electric blue shoes hey, i mean how on earth would that happen!!!

one piece of advice i had though was to try to except before the day that everything may not run as perfectly as we want them as they often dont - things get delayed, other people make mistakes, then it wont bother you so much on the day, and be able to let the little things go.

have a non wedding related day today and do at least one thing you really like to do just for yourself. im sure you will sleep better tonight. xx,

kelda_shelton

lol, as others say, dont worry.. these dreams are perfectly natural...

oh and electric blue shoes aint too bad.. I actually had a pair that colour for under my wedding dress.. but they were the same shade as my bridesmaids so that was part of the reason!

cleomolly

I'm glad to hear others are having these horrid dreams too, I had my first the other night, the same really about hari, make up and dress not fitting! nice to know you're not alone and its a normal thing to happen when stressed out with planning.

laura2481

I've had two this week alone- one that DF wanted to take my wedding ring back and exchange it for a cheaper one (not that he's spent a fortune on the one I have!) because I wasn't worth spending that much on

The second one was that I was waiting to go into the ceremony and some false nails I was wearing fell off and then a waitress was trying to help me fix them with spares but the spare nails were wrong and then I was thinking I would have to take them all off. AND I DON'T EVEN WEAR FALSE NAILS! lol Bonkers

DitaBombita

About a month ago I had a dream I was getting ready for my wedding in my old work toilets. Booo. Then when my Step Dad came in I noticed I had a bit of a moustache and really hairy arms.....stressful