Happy Feb 1st Daily Chat-Blether Away DFW's!

sallyx

Snags hun, step away from him and start giving him some of the treatment he's been dishing out...maybe he might realise what a !!!!!! he is. Mind you if he's so far up his own arrsse I doubt he will notice and in my mind why would you want to be with him

Thanks snags...I was happy to drive as to be honest I will only have a couple even if I get a taxi...I just don't do alcohol overload anymore, especially if I have to drive 4 hours home the next day! But if there are lots of us I'll cram in a cab with you all as I will be cheaper than driving probably.

Now does anyone drink bacardi? I won a bottle at the school summer fair and Its sat at home unopened..its a mahooosive bottle too so shall bring it along if someone particularly likes it

Snaggles

I think, sadly, he is sabotaging it on purpose. He likes to play the part of the wounded martyr, punishing himself for screwing up his marriage, and I felt sad for him and hoped he would see it was time to stop now, but I'm not sure he ever will. The fragile, hurt, damaged act is just a load of bollox and I'm not playing along any more.

scaredy_cat

snags, i tihnk you should delete him from your friends so that you don't see his status, then you won't be temepted to check it.

sallyx

Snaggles wrote: »

I think, sadly, he is sabotaging it on purpose. He likes to play the part of the wounded martyr, punishing himself for screwing up his marriage, and I felt sad for him and hoped he would see it was time to stop now, but I'm not sure he ever will. The fragile, hurt, damaged act is just a load of bollox and I'm not playing along any more.

Good Snags...you don't need another man that is wounded and needs help and healing. You need someone who is happy, sure of themselves (without being cocky) and wants to do things for you!

Snaggles

No probs Sal - I can't drink much either, just because I'm a terrible lightweight and get drunk soooo easily! I never used to be. Hmmpppffhhhh!

I think even if Mr Sunday did wake up to himself, he's not the right person for me anyway. He is charming, funny, frighteningly intelligent, driven, eloquent, very sexy and one of the most attractive men I have ever met, all the things I could possibly want in a man really, but still I don't feel as though I love him, even after 8 months, and if I was going to completely fall for him, I think it would have happened by now, regardless of us trying to be just friends. The attraction was always that I liked him so much, and fancied him so much, I've never been able to say that I love him.

Snaggles

Scaredy, I think once we have talked, I will delete him. I want to try to do it calmly, and explain why I am moving on, so that it's final, and not a heat-of-the-moment grand gesture that I go back on as soon as I miss him a bit. Because I do like his company so much, and I will miss him terribly, so it's not going to be easy.

Anyway, enough about him. Not going to obsess. :whistle:

redsquirrel80

Didn't realise it had been as long as 8 months Snags!

Snaggles

Yes, it was June - a couple of weeks before the Run for All.

He sent me a really inspirational message as we were on the starting line telling me it was within my capabilities and I only needed to believe it and enjoy it. And I really did enjoy the run because of the mindset that he put me in. He wouldn't even think of doing something like that now.

Bunnyinthelights

So what did you do with your free Sat then Snags?

Not sure what time I can get hall from yet, it depends on whether there is someone in there during the day.

Will find out and let you know!

The train station (Wellington, Shropshire) is only about 1 mile from the hotel so will cost minimal amount to the hotel. i would say I would pick up people but if everyone is arriving at differnt times, it will be a lot of to-ing and fro-ing and I am sure I will be busy cooking and getting the hall ready and at some point, trying to make my fat, tired self look as far away from 40 as possible...sorry if that sounds mean, I reallt do appreciate you all maing the effort to come to help me celebrate.

sallyx

its flipping cold today...shop is freezing and I have a sore throat