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Advice please

Its just one of those days, im sat at work not able to do anthing but hold back tears and work out how I can just disappear. My debt is so unmanageable at the moment. I can see a light at the end of the tunnel in 6 months when 2 loans are finished and released £400.00 to pay my cc but how to manage until then.

I dont want to take an IVA out cos my debts are over 15000 as I would like to get a mortgage in 2 years. My job is secure so no worries there and I realise my position is not as terrible as some on this board, but when its happenning you feel so selfish and think nobody else knows what you are going through and I cant talk at home.

I have done a SOA and there is nothing I can cut back on as Ive already done so, my salary is just consumed with paying off my debts. How Ive let myself get into this I dont know. It was ok whilst I was in receipt of Tax Credits and Maintenance but now theyve stopped I cant make up the shortfall.

SOrry for the rant but even if nobody can answer me I feel better by putting it into writing.

PS Ive rung BOS who have said they will look each month at what I can pay - so thats a start I expect.

Thanks

Michelle

Comments

  • gonzo127
    gonzo127 Posts: 4,482 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    well if you have a SOA you could post it up here for everyone to have a look at and maybe spot something you missed

    the other one is contact one of hte debt charities CCCS payplan etc they might be able to help you and get a DMP together for you for the short term at least which could freeze interest and give you a set monthly payment whicvh they will distribute for you
    Drop a brand challenge
    on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
    10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
    20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
    30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    Are you able to request a payment holiday from any loans or mortgage?
    After falling off the gambling wagon (twice): £33,600 (24,000+ 9,600) - Original CC Debt: £7,885.91

    Dad Gift 6k ¦ Savings & Inv Tst: £2,500
    Loan 10k: £0 ¦ Dad 5.5k: £2,270 ¦ LTSB: £0 ¦ RBS: £0 ¦ Virgin £0 ¦ Egg £0

    Total Owed: £2,270 (+6k) 11/08/2011
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    Hi michelle

    Have you posted the SoA on here for other people to see if they can spot savings - its not always about cutting back sometimes its about getting the same items/service but paying less for it.

    Have you been in touch with CCCS or any of these? - http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2077631
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
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