depression

geminilady

Miroslav wrote:

Not really hard, but she's getting funny with me now It's all but over I think.

Offered a hug, she pushed me away.

All you can do is gently ask her if you have done anything wrong,keeping my fingers crossed for you.

rose07

Miro hun, just be you

we all love ya here

key points

slow
gentle
smooth
close

and best keep away from any smarties just incase xxxx

blinky

Miroslav wrote:

Disaster. She's barely speaking to me, i'm barely speaking to her.

I'm gonna have to find the balls to tell her, even if it means I lose her totally.

I'm not gettting any positive vibes tonight

Miroslav wrote:

Not really hard, but she's getting funny with me now It's all but over I think.

Offered a hug, she pushed me away.

Miroslav wrote:

She'll never speak to me again, I don't want to be rejected

I'm sure it's not as bad as it seems at the moment, mate. There's a lot of all or nothing thinking going on - mainly nothing / doom

Look, New Years Eve can be really crappy for many people. It makes people think of things which have happened in the past which is often upsetting. Added to that it's one of those nights when you are expected to be happy even if you feel like s***. There's far too much pressure to be happy.

It's just another night. :eek:

'S' might not want to talk about things tonight. Give her some space. Are there many people at your house?

feelinggood_2

Yay, other people to offer advice! Listen to them instead Miro, they will give much much much better advice!

blinky

feelinggood wrote:

Yay, other people to offer advice! Listen to them instead Miro, they will give much much much better advice!

You give good advice too feelinggood. Don't devalue your contribution

Miro needs as much support from us as possible at the moment.

rose07

FG you give good advice too, you are saying negative things, you are an important part here, how are you doing? do you think you are going out tonight? but you might want to drink then??

but hun hope you have a good night xxx

feelinggood_2

rose07 wrote:

FG you give good advice too, you are saying negative things, you are an important part here, how are you doing? do you think you are going out tonight? but you might want to drink then??

but hun hope you have a good night xxx

Hehe, my advice isn't up to scratch - I've got too many things on my mind lol! I'm just thinking about my love life, can't solve anyone elses lol.
I'm doing good Very happy
Not going out tonight, don't fancy it as I can't be with the one person I want to be with. Only one place I want to be tonight, and I can't be there. So I'm staying in No drink urges today, its been a really happy day
Hope you enjoy it, can you ask x if he is feeling okay? Hope he knows what I'm talking about

rose07

feelinggood wrote:

Hehe, my advice isn't up to scratch - I've got too many things on my mind lol! I'm just thinking about my love life, can't solve anyone elses lol.
I'm doing good Very happy
Not going out tonight, don't fancy it as I can't be with the one person I want to be with. Only one place I want to be tonight, and I can't be there. So I'm staying in No drink urges today, its been a really happy day

huni your advice is good. You have given good advice to alot of people here incuding me.

Try not to worry about love life hun, and think of you and not anyone else. Love is a strange thing that can bite ya in the a**. And i do understand what you are saying hun.

It will be a new year soon, and the right guy will come along soon. We can wait ages for the right guy but when we find them we are sooo happy, and if i am honest hun I have not found that person yet . You are young and lovely, you will find the right guy soon and he will love you and want to be with you hun.

We are just going out taking a few shots. And I am not drinking tonight either hun, so we can do this together. xxx

rose07

feelinggood wrote:

Hope you enjoy it, can you ask x if he is feeling okay? Hope he knows what I'm talking about

'x' is fine hun, we got a close triangle aint we huni? xxx hmmmm

feelinggood_2

Oh, its a good distracted Love lifes going nicely lol