We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

When you're debt free will you mortgage?

I'm so commited to being debt free, but I'm torn.

I want dearly to own my own house to bring my lovely kids up in. I want this to be their security when my husband and I have gone.

I've owned a house in the past (but then got divorced and left it behind without a penny to show for it!) and have rented for the past 9 years.

When I eventually finish my DMP and my credit rating is feeling better, I would love to buy a house. I'm torn because I feel this goes against everything I believe in (and happily preach to anyone who will listen) about being debt free.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
DMP mutual support number 174
Total debt now (April 10) £0! - total paid off £30,221 or 100%
I'm now debt free after 6 years!!:j
Non smoker since June 2006 :j
«1

Comments

  • skylight
    skylight Posts: 10,716 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Home Insurance Hacker!
    No - see it as a new mission!
    I mean, once you are debt free there will be nothing to work towards!

    Once you are debt free, join the mortgage-free club on the other boards! They are committed to paying off their mortgage as fast as possible!
  • skylight
    skylight Posts: 10,716 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Home Insurance Hacker!
    And excellent on the stopping smoking by the way!
  • milliejon
    milliejon Posts: 1,052 Forumite
    I suppose I'll have this site to help choose the best mortgage too.

    The non-smoking is great, but the money is yet to materialise in my bank account. I don't understand where that money's gone. I suspect we've bought nicer/more food!
    DMP mutual support number 174
    Total debt now (April 10) £0! - total paid off £30,221 or 100%
    I'm now debt free after 6 years!!:j
    Non smoker since June 2006 :j
  • ben500
    ben500 Posts: 23,192 Forumite
    No, debt free, mortgage free and it's effing brilliant I have no desire at the moment to own my own home having been in the same position as the op, I am now happy to rent, as for the childrens legacy, they see how I live and how stress free it is for me that is enough of a legacy as I have already taught them all how to fish.
    Four guns yet only one trigger prepare for a volley.


    Together we can make a difference.
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    After I am debt free, I will aim to be mortagae free. Then I can live my life without paying a penny for a roof over my head.
    Barclaycard 3800

    Nothing to do but hibernate till spring






  • kevin_M
    kevin_M Posts: 551 Forumite
    im going to be buying the house im in now. way i see it im paying rent for this place might as well be going towards buying it
  • tesuhoha
    tesuhoha Posts: 17,971 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    I'm sorry but I just can't understand why everyone thinks renting is so great. You have to pay to live somewhere, so you might as well be paying a mortgage. If for example you rent for 25 years paying £500 or so a month, at the end of that time you will have nothing to show for it and it will be 25 years of paying someone else's mortgage, throwing your money down the pan, but if you pay your own mortgage you will eventually own a house outright.
    The forest would be very silent if no birds sang except for the birds that sang the best






  • K9cuddles
    K9cuddles Posts: 2,202 Forumite
    The reason I'm becoming debt free is to get a mortgage!! :)
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 092

    ::£2 - CSC - Terramundi is filling up!! :: Joined 3/3/06 :: 5/2/07 - 835kg + £280 Banked!!::
    ::5p,10p & 20p - Savings Tin :: Founded 9/4/06 :: 23/3/07 - 3.2kg ::

    Lost to date - 9kg (22/8/06) Next weigh in 2007!!
  • ben500
    ben500 Posts: 23,192 Forumite
    Unfortunately my experience has been I pay the mortgage she gets the house!
    Four guns yet only one trigger prepare for a volley.


    Together we can make a difference.
  • Firefly
    Firefly Posts: 3,024 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    My morgage will be my pension in years to come.

    It's like contributing to a savings plan and as we all know, that can be a wise move. ;)
    Do not allow the risk of failure to stop you trying!
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.8K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.8K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.3K Life & Family
  • 258.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.