lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

doodledo_2

Evening chick. Sorry you are feeling poorly *passes lemsip.

Snow was crappy today wasn't here, took me forever to get to work.

Keeping_Motivated

Lilmiss...I hope you don't mind me posting, I always read but usually just lurk.

You mention how you hate rejection (don't we all) and it seems to have a deeper impact on you than some, also your self esteem seems to be low? Plus I don't know anything about your relationship with your mum but the snippets you write about her seem pretty bad? I was just wondering if your lack of self esteem stemmed from your mum rather than men?

Sorry if that is a bit deep, I think it came to mind as I have been reading Wols diary about toxic mums and the effect it has on a daughters life..she recommends a book if you are interested.

Sorry if I am way off the mark just ignore me.

Take care
KM x

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Get well soon Dawn
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lilmissmup wrote: »

My book!!!! Only seen one man in last seven months! Defo gonna take things with camperman slower (if they go anywhere!)

Seven months is nothing - try nearly 2 years!! (that was until friday :eek: )

Shoe_Gal

Hi

Hope you're feeling better :A

lilmissmup

Palema wrote: »

Get well soon Dawn
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Seven months is nothing - try nearly 2 years!! (that was until friday :eek: )

You must tell more!!!!!! Did you join match in the end hun???

lilmissmup

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Lilmiss...I hope you don't mind me posting, I always read but usually just lurk.

You mention how you hate rejection (don't we all) and it seems to have a deeper impact on you than some, also your self esteem seems to be low? Plus I don't know anything about your relationship with your mum but the snippets you write about her seem pretty bad? I was just wondering if your lack of self esteem stemmed from your mum rather than men?

Sorry if that is a bit deep, I think it came to mind as I have been reading Wols diary about toxic mums and the effect it has on a daughters life..she recommends a book if you are interested.

Sorry if I am way off the mark just ignore me.

Take care
KM x

Hi KM,

Did't know you were a lurker here!!! :wave:

Would be interested in hearing a bit more about the book.

TBH the thing with my mum does and doesn't effect me, shes an evil piece of work but I have a lovely Daddy who would walk across hot coals if he had too to look after me so don't really feel rejected by my family, I adore my brother and dads side of the family.

She has serious mental health issues and I have suffered with depression and anxiety since I was 16 prob stemmed somewhat from her/childhood.

But I am also a cancerian and nearly all other cancerian women I know are a bit nutty too.....to lighten this post!

Am pretty sure the IM2 wobble is just cos I was with ex so long and also it would have been mine and exs 7 year anniversary this coming Sunday so a bit weirded out by that, and winter is really getting to me too.

I am prob making you all think I am giving more of $hite as I only post the moans. Must post more happy things

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lilmissmup wrote: »

You must tell more!!!!!! Did you join match in the end hun???

I did join match but not to pay, can't afford it just now with paying for my car next week.

He is a guy I met on POF 3 years ago, we have loads in common, never really been more than friends - was a good night though!!!

lilmissmup

Right I have deleted IM2 off Facebook and he shall never be mentioned here again!

I am going to sleep soon, and hope I feel better tomorrow, my nose is starting to feel blocked I have blown it so much, hope that makes sense, like its collapsing on me!!! :mad:

Souk08

:j to deleting shortie and a good nights sleep. XXX

Keeping_Motivated

This is the book below, extract taken from Wols diary I hope she doesn't mind..

"The book is called "When you and your mother can;t be friends" by Victoria Secunda....mainly for daughters - but useful for mothers and sons too . However it should be stressed that this is not for normal mother/daughter relationships - it;s for daughters of extremely toxic mothers and describes the different methods these mothers resort to, the sad reasons why they do it (ie what's going on for them) and the fundamental issues it creates for the daughter in terms of their self-esteem and life choices "

And well done for taking control of the shortie situation.