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Pensions Planning: The NUMBER
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SomeMadeUpName said:Going back to the 'number': I spoke to a friend the yesterday, who is an active retiree in her early seventies. She has an income of £21k a year and cannot spend it (her words, and clearly I offered to help). She says she is saving £400 pcm. Call that £5k of savings pa and as that come from taxed income she is saying she could happily cope without £6k of her gross income. So her number is £15k.4
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CFrog said:It's a bit difficult for me to 'un-pick' our grocery spend from my credit card statements but for a family of 4 meat-eating adults, I'm looking at £1000-1100 per month. For the last 12 months we've been having a Sainsburys home delivery which typically runs to £150-175 per week (including c. £30-50 per week on wine and the 'usual' household stuff you'd buy at the supermarket). I know it's a bit more expensive but I always buy meat from a local butcher (typically £40-50 per week). The monthly figure includes the occasional take-away.I think....4
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This is one f my favourite threads. I am quite surprised at the amount some are spending in supermarkets, wouldn’t know what to spend to get near £1000 a month. Dh and i have had a budget of £250 a month for supermarket shopping, that includes toiletries, cleaning supplies, occasional cards, tv paper, flowers, alcohol. we just reduced this to £150 this month, eating really well. i meal plan and buy what i need, but we are not deprived. my husband likes a beer every night and whiskey (not every night). i drink wine, usually at weekends. would really be interested to know what others are spending money on!5
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savingmore said:This is one f my favourite threads. I am quite surprised at the amount some are spending in supermarkets, wouldn’t know what to spend to get near £1000 a month. Dh and i have had a budget of £250 a month for supermarket shopping, that includes toiletries, cleaning supplies, occasional cards, tv paper, flowers, alcohol. we just reduced this to £150 this month, eating really well. i meal plan and buy what i need, but we are not deprived. my husband likes a beer every night and whiskey (not every night). i drink wine, usually at weekends. would really be interested to know what others are spending money on!4
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I'm so glad this read is up and running again, it's really useful to know people's 'numbers'.
Currently I have 14 years before retirement, and DB pensions should give me £18k in today's money. I also started paying into an sal sac AVC with the Pru, which unfortunately is turning into a nightmare (and I'm far from being the only one). Until my complaint is resolved I'm not even prepared to increase my payment, so that small pay rise might be going somewhere else!2 -
jimi_man said:savingmore said:This is one f my favourite threads. I am quite surprised at the amount some are spending in supermarkets, wouldn’t know what to spend to get near £1000 a month. Dh and i have had a budget of £250 a month for supermarket shopping, that includes toiletries, cleaning supplies, occasional cards, tv paper, flowers, alcohol. we just reduced this to £150 this month, eating really well. i meal plan and buy what i need, but we are not deprived. my husband likes a beer every night and whiskey (not every night). i drink wine, usually at weekends. would really be interested to know what others are spending money on!
A typical day would be, for us 2, breakfast (equiv. Weetabix or Bran flakes with milk) Porridge if its cold!!
mid-morning snack - Yogurt or cereal bar or fruit or brioche or toast and jam
Lunch (main meals) - Chilli Con Carne, 20% mince (drained), packet mix, plus tinned tomato and kidney beans, with brown rice (makes 4 portions to 2 go in the freezer)
or Salmon fillet with Pasta and Tomato pesto. We also had 32 day matured sirloin steak and chips too!
Afternoon snack - Fruit or popcorn or crisps (or all 3 on a running day....munchies)
Tea - sandwiches (seeded batch) or wraps, with either ham, chicken or cheese etc
During the day we drink tea or instant coffee, sometimes hot chocolate, or herbal tea or diet lemonade.
A "biscuit barrel" pack for with a cup of tea. (nice, custard creams bourbons and shortcake)
One bottle of wine a week, shared. or maybe a couple of beers or cider.
Household wise, we usually put on about 4-5 washes a week (light, dark, bedding, towels), and clean every room at least once a week. So Kitchen cleaner, bathroom cleaner, toilet gel, bleach and polish.
Toiletries are just the usual's, but again all Aldi (other than my toothpaste, as I do like OralB pro-expert)
So, there you have it...that's us, typically.
However, although this has been a cheap month, we're nearer £210 a month usually. Some meals would already be in the freezer etc. Toiletries not bought every week etc.How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)6 -
My partner and I pay £1000 per month between us into our joint account. Of that we budget £100 per week for "groceries", which includes alcohol, household cleaning supplies etc. Also, we are with TSB bank and we use their "Save the Pennies" feature to squirrel away "loose change" from rounding up each debit card spend to the nearest pound. This goes into a separate account with £80 from our £1k monthly budget and covers household and car insurance, car maintenance and replacement white goods. We've run like this for years with no increases for inflation! We have paid off our mortgage.Here's a breakdown (Weekly, Monthly, Yearly - I hope the formatting stays in one piece when I post this!):
Food & Household £99.23 £430.00 £5,160.00 Council Tax £27.12 £117.50 £1,410.00 Cleaner £0.00 £0.00 £0.00 Energy (Gas & Elec) £23.08 £100.00 £1,200.00 Water £7.85 £34.00 £408.00 Car Maintenance £7.69 £33.33 £400.00 Phone and Broadband (Now TV) £8.31 £35.99 £431.88 Road Tax £0.58 £2.50 £30.00 Car Insurance £4.75 £20.58 £247.00 The AA £3.00 £13.00 £156.00 TV Licence £3.24 £14.04 £168.48 Coal £2.69 £11.67 £140.00 House Insurance £2.31 £10.00 £120.00 Sky HD £2.31 £10.00 £120.00 Mobile 4G £2.46 £10.66 £127.92 Window Cleaner £2.00 £8.67 £104.00 Canary Security Cameras £1.52 £6.60 £79.20 Ring Camera (Front) Plan £0.48 £2.08 £24.99 Heating Servicing £0.77 £3.33 £40.00 NowTV - TV £2.07 £8.99 £107.88 Carbonite Backup £2.19 £9.47 £113.64 Chimney Sweep £0.96 £4.17 £50.00 Amazon Prime £1.84 £7.99 £95.88 Amazon Music Unlimited HD £3.83 £16.58 £199.00 Sub Total £210.27 £911.16 £10,933.87 We share the Amazon Music Unlimited subscription with family members. We want to get rid of the SKY HD subscription, we only use it for the terrestrial stations, but I need to find a decent Free Sat setup.I should say that my partner does the shopping and has an eye for a bargain. She likes the ASDA and Morrisons yellow labels. We got a side of trout the other day for £2.45 instead of £11. (Freeze on day of purchase - or smoke it! ;-) )We generally cook from scratch and freeze sauces we make etc. We generally try to never throw a scrap of food away.If you want to be rich, live like you're poor; if you want to be poor, live like you're rich.4 -
Bravepants said:
[Snip]We want to get rid of the SKY HD subscription, we only use it for the terrestrial stations, but I need to find a decent Free Sat setup.[Snip]2 -
jimi_man said:savingmore said:This is one f my favourite threads. I am quite surprised at the amount some are spending in supermarkets, wouldn’t know what to spend to get near £1000 a month. Dh and i have had a budget of £250 a month for supermarket shopping, that includes toiletries, cleaning supplies, occasional cards, tv paper, flowers, alcohol. we just reduced this to £150 this month, eating really well. i meal plan and buy what i need, but we are not deprived. my husband likes a beer every night and whiskey (not every night). i drink wine, usually at weekends. would really be interested to know what others are spending money on!
A beer each night, a bottle of wine per week and some whisky. Thats £50/months alone.1 -
Bravepants said:My partner and I pay £1000 per month between us into our joint account. Of that we budget £100 per week for "groceries", which includes alcohol, household cleaning supplies etc. Also, we are with TSB bank and we use their "Save the Pennies" feature to squirrel away "loose change" from rounding up each debit card spend to the nearest pound. This goes into a separate account with £80 from our £1k monthly budget and covers household and car insurance, car maintenance and replacement white goods. We've run like this for years with no increases for inflation! We have paid off our mortgage.Here's a breakdown (Weekly, Monthly, Yearly - I hope the formatting stays in one piece when I post this!):
Food & Household £99.23 £430.00 £5,160.00 Council Tax £27.12 £117.50 £1,410.00 Cleaner £0.00 £0.00 £0.00 Energy (Gas & Elec) £23.08 £100.00 £1,200.00 Water £7.85 £34.00 £408.00 Car Maintenance £7.69 £33.33 £400.00 Phone and Broadband (Now TV) £8.31 £35.99 £431.88 Road Tax £0.58 £2.50 £30.00 Car Insurance £4.75 £20.58 £247.00 The AA £3.00 £13.00 £156.00 TV Licence £3.24 £14.04 £168.48 Coal £2.69 £11.67 £140.00 House Insurance £2.31 £10.00 £120.00 Sky HD £2.31 £10.00 £120.00 Mobile 4G £2.46 £10.66 £127.92 Window Cleaner £2.00 £8.67 £104.00 Canary Security Cameras £1.52 £6.60 £79.20 Ring Camera (Front) Plan £0.48 £2.08 £24.99 Heating Servicing £0.77 £3.33 £40.00 NowTV - TV £2.07 £8.99 £107.88 Carbonite Backup £2.19 £9.47 £113.64 Chimney Sweep £0.96 £4.17 £50.00 Amazon Prime £1.84 £7.99 £95.88 Amazon Music Unlimited HD £3.83 £16.58 £199.00 Sub Total £210.27 £911.16 £10,933.87 We share the Amazon Music Unlimited subscription with family members. We want to get rid of the SKY HD subscription, we only use it for the terrestrial stations, but I need to find a decent Free Sat setup.I should say that my partner does the shopping and has an eye for a bargain. She likes the ASDA and Morrisons yellow labels. We got a side of trout the other day for £2.45 instead of £11. (Freeze on day of purchase - or smoke it! ;-) )We generally cook from scratch and freeze sauces we make etc. We generally try to never throw a scrap of food away.Luckily my DB pension covers this, use DHs SIPP for holidays, home improvements etc .3
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