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***Weekend Chat-It's the XFactor Final Tonight! Come on in for a natter 12/13 Dec***

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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    My past-checkered at best (and only in the past couple of years) is being thrown back in my face by people that don't know me but do have an impact on my life. It hurts. They don't know me but they feel that its ok to judge me. I don't want to talk about it really, I want to get into a delorian and go back in time and change something I did that really was a big stupid thing to do.

    We have all done somethings we regret in life bunny.....but the choices we make mould us into what we are now...you are a kind, loving and caring person, wonderful mother and fabulous friend....

    don't ever change....and do not listen to small minded people who are obviously so perfect they have NEVER done anything wrong.....
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Simon cowell wants next years X factor to be even longer.....*big sigh*
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I know that suzy. But show me a person that HASN'T judged? I know I am guilty of it myself.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
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    <<<<<<< check out mine and bunnys legs.....;):D
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Poosmate
    Poosmate Posts: 3,126 Forumite
    Aw poor Bunny, we've all done stuff like that and I think there would be a lifetimes wait for that Delorian the queue for it would be so long hun!

    I know it's easy to say but, if they don't know you well enough to judge you, it's their problem to deal with. If you've done something stupid, you regret doing it and are sorry, you can't do anything to change it, stop beating yourself up about it and don't allow others to either. It's their problem if they can't get to know you before passing judgement!

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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I do try to remember that there are 2 sides to every story and some people (who live in great WHOPPING GLASS HOUSES) seem to forget that.

    Really sad and cross. W*nkers
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,539 Forumite
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    Poosmate, Ryan Giggs won it. Jensen was second.
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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    I know that suzy. But show me a person that HASN'T judged? I know I am guilty of it myself.

    I am guilty of it too, but I usually do it in my head......:o
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • SuzySu
    SuzySu Posts: 3,478 Forumite
    I know that hun and I also know what it is like to be judged - I have spent most of my life dealing with the aftermath. Let your friends help and support you as you do for them.
    YOUR = belonging to you (your coat); YOU'RE = you are (I hope you're ok)

    really....it's not hard to understand :T
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Sorry to be so cryptic and a downer,
    let me know who wins XFactor
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
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