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lostinrates

Afriend wrote: »

Don't play innocent. Little Miss Flirty. :D

I've PMed Chucky once that I can recall, it was neither flirty nor abusive.

In fact...don't think I'm flirty in PMs.....because its a different type of communication. Only started being flirty on the board because for a long while was the only girly-girl posting and normal tactics of diffusing the yuck weren't possible.

Joke-flirt became a functional defusing tactic.

chucky

lostinrates wrote: »

I've PMed Chucky once that I can recall, it was neither flirty nor abusive.

it wasn't you LIR - your PM wasn't flirty or abusive either...

the PM's i've received are persistent in nature but not really abusive - they're funny if anything and will probably stop now they've sort of been outed...

the one i got from Pobby inviting me to the Blue Oyster bar worried me though

lostinrates

Afriend wrote: »

I am joshing with you lostinrates. :beer:

sure, and I don't mind. But I do dislike the idea of people I like getting horrid stuff. Not the people like you guys who are obviously not floored by it, but some would be.

lostinrates

chucky wrote: »

you're PM

That is possibly the worst insult ever received. I most certainly am NOT.;)

Really2

I keep MY PM off.

After Gen on his leaving thing and NDG I thought it was best not to have it on.

Some people on here I do find a bit worrying, I prefer not to know thier thoughts about me. Unless they do it in public which is fine

Pobby

I have Pmd folk and been PMd myself. All very cordial and also helpful.

Heyman_2

It is nice when people PM you for more info on a post you've made or something - I've had a few of them and it feels good to know you've helped someone out.

So I keep mine on. It's just words on the screen at the end of the day, it's not going to kill me.

Generali

Thanks for your support and I reckon there are 2 people sending my cr a pp y messages.

I think I know who one of the senders is (they posted on this thread but will remain nameless). No idea who the other is.

lostinrates

Afriend wrote: »

Do you think men consider flirty mails from women 'horrid'?

I think some men would, yes. I think some women would find some upsetting. Its not always possible to tell from posts what sex people are.

chucky

Pobby wrote: »

I have Pmd folk and been PMd myself. All very cordial and also helpful.

the Blue Oyster invitation was pushing it a bit though wasn't it Pobster... :money:

Pobby wrote: »

and been PMd myself

what was his name?