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Hi Again but im not sure if my first attempt went in the chat room
help im in debt overspending by 150.00 a month have to use credit cards to survive the month as overdraft used up cards stopped have a secured loan
do i remorgage? sell up ( the house i ve put everything in to)? give up?
please help
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  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    Hello,

    Before we can suggest anything. You need to post a Statement Of Affairs.

    Which is all income and outgoings. Including debts with interest rates.

    And will see if you can help shave some off and help with £150 over spend every month.


    Yours


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  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    Hi, welcome to the forum.

    You need to post a Statement Of Affairs (SOA) so we can help you cut back, and also a list of debts with APRs and payments.

    Read the sticky at the top of the thread lists for some hnts on how to do this.
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  • Hi

    I'm a novice at this but you are among friends now and someone who really knows what they are doing will be along with words of wisdom for you soon. Don't panic and don't despair - there will be help and hope I'm sure.

    And yes, others got in there even as I was typing this!
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  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Just wanted to say dont panic & dont take any rash action! You've in the right place as lots of us here who have lots of debt and all struglling to get out of it! Post your SOA (list of all incomings/outgoings) and people can see where you can save money...other things you can do is get a spending diary to keep a note of every penny you spend and do things like take lunch to work etc (my parking alone used to amount to £150 a month and now its zero!)...the old style board gives lots of hints for saving money too but would start with SOA and go from there. Big hugs & welcome!
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  • beanielou
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    Hi & welcome to MSE
    Put up your SOA when you get a mo & we will see how we can help
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  • halloweenqueen_2
    halloweenqueen_2 Posts: 3,312 Forumite
    I think theres probably a good chance the folks on here will be able to trim the £150 a month of your outgoings!!
  • Hi everyone
    and thank you all for your kind words and advice
    I have morgage repayments of 930.00 per month
    secured loan of 500.00 per month
    endowment policy of 114.00 per month
    petrol to work 200.00 per month
    credit cards for wife and myself 450.00 per month 17.9APR with bcard
    household costs inc food gas electric
    water 500.00 per month
    car insurances 70.00 per month because i do two jobs we need 2 cars
    telephone inernet tv mob 137.00 per month

    I also have an overdraft which i currently go over and the bank stops my card so to survive i have to use my credit card........ its catch 22
    also if i have to pay road tax or the car breaks down or any emergency i have to use my credit card........
    i have spoken to other people who say remorgage is this right to get more into debt?
    should i sell up?
    is there a way that i can get out of this mess and then maybe start to have a normal life?
    Thanks everyone again
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    hi there

    A few things from me

    You need to do a SOA which if you look at Southern Scousers first time posters will tell you all about what one is and how to do one. Also you'll need to use Marins budget planner to look at

    Say your housegold bills for you and wife, they need to be broken down, what do you REALLY spend on each one.

    then we can help Also it helps you to get organised.

    Re-mortgaging is certiainly not the best idea, especially as you have asecured loan already :eek: it will stretch the debt out for even longer and you will end up paying interest forever more.

    Do this, then we'll haveanother look. Im here for the rest of the afternoon, so dont worry I shall give this the lynzpower treatment and im sure we will all be able to find you lots of savings, to give more to your debt so you dont feel like you are going under :)
    hang in there
    Lynz
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  • Bargain_Rzl
    Bargain_Rzl Posts: 6,254 Forumite
    Hi,

    Please add to your SOA:

    Your income (monthly) from job
    Wife's income (monthly) from job
    Benefits
    Tax credits
    Any other income

    Total balance of each debt
    % APR of each debt

    Also if you're able to be a bit more specific about the items you've grouped together (i.e. separate figures for food, gas, electric, water, phone, internet, tv, mobile) it will be much easier for us to work out where the amounts can be lowered.

    HTH :D
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  • Jessiepig
    Jessiepig Posts: 211 Forumite
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    Wow. some of your payments seem very high. I know that the people here will give you great advice, but I think they need more of a breakdown. i.e who is your secured loan with, why is your petrol costs so high and your household bills, how much is each one and for how many people. Your communications cost seems high.
    Even with 4 mobiles,sky,broadband and house phone mine is lower than yous.
    I do have debt but manage to keep household things very low.
    I am sure that the £150 overspend will be reduced with the help on here.
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