The Compers Inn - Part 25

NoNameWoman

You are not over-reacting but I don't think it is flirting either.. some men are naturally 'over-friendly' :rolleyes: and they think there's nothing wrong in that at all..
Would he feel ok if you were to be as informal with your workmates?

If you can, try not to let this bother you.

Happy_shopper

Heads up, folks!

*Edit - Christmas book giveaway now closed. New winners have been PM'd.*

Juliepink26

I email quite a few people with little kisses at the end but it doent mean anythig he might just trying to keep on her good side..!
Yeah Toni the sandwich bar is going really well, I made a marbel cake and 14 muffins this morning and he just called to say they are all so sold so I better make some more!!! lol.. cooking and comping my two favorite pass times!! will post some pics later, when I work out whats wrong with my fire fox..

toniq

I put kisses everywhere xxxx
but that aside, I would make it clear that it has upset u, and as he obviously cares for u, he should stop any behaviour that could be seen as flirtatious.xxx

isitenough

Cheers for comments. Do you really email little kisses to suppliers though? I guess I find that strange. He always does come across as 'over friendly' and flirty which has always bothered me - as he tries really hard with others! Comes home in bad moods etc.. I can't really get over it though, specially as he doesn't really offer any explaination other than 'you have to keep them on the good side' or whatever. Guess if he didn't just wave it off I'd be more casual about it. Oh well, another crappy weekend!
Toniq - thanks, he knows it's bothers me and always has but he doesn't change as he sees nothing wrong with it, whether it upsets me or not.

Agent_Scully_2

Hi all, did anyone else get a competition winner email from baby website? I got very very excited until I opened it and realised it was £2 off something or other. Not a happy chick now

toniq

isitenough wrote: »

Cheers for comments. Do you really email little kisses to suppliers though? I guess I find that strange. He always does come across as 'over friendly' and flirty which has always bothered me - as he tries really hard with others! Comes home in bad moods etc.. I can't really get over it though, specially as he doesn't really offer any explaination other than 'you have to keep them on the good side' or whatever. Guess if he didn't just wave it off I'd be more casual about it. Oh well, another crappy weekend!
Toniq - thanks, he knows it's bothers me and always has but he doesn't change as he sees nothing wrong with it, whether it upsets me or not.

hmmmm.........*if it was me* and he flirted with people, i'd kick him into touch sharpish.
If a guy is with me, they r with me and flirting giving people a subtle come on is no way tolerated, I don't do that, so my fella dare not, Me and Paul had issues at the start of our relationship to the point after 6 weeks i backed away, Because he though it was cool to chat to random girls( total strangers ) that kept asking on his msn. he saw it as harmless i didn't,
I knew for me that i couldn't be with a guy i had doubts over, as those doubts would niggle and eat away at me, we spent a month apart and he actually wooed me back and understood my view, i could see his as well, since then if we use fb or msn, both have access to each others, Im totally secure with him as it will be his loss if he messes about.

You need to weigh up if u can can ignore his behaviour, or chat to him and find a way forward where u will feel more secure.
Really hope u can work through this and reach a compromise and way forward without doubts.

isitenough

Thanks, must be the name eh?! (without giving anything away, not that he reads here or anything!).
We've always had these issues and I know I'm neurotic with it but can't help it. He thinks itj just 'goes away' and it's all OK again. I never forget. He's never done anything other than be over friendly (to my knowledge) and it's been 13 years but... I dunno. I reckon he over compensates by being nice. Me, I don't normally go out as I don't work since kiddies came along, (unless taking kiddies to school etc..), so I'm a recluse in that way and prefer the net. I do get the hump that he does work and pays for everything while I'm here at home. My insecurities there though.
Anywho....We'll see how the weekend goes!
Thanks for the chat, nice to vent every now and then!

Mamzie

omg, just managed to reserve a Hamster playhouse, that has made me feel better...

lisa78

Evening everyone, haven't had time to pop into the inn in weeks. Hope everyone is well. I'm having a good spell win wise managed to win something for me for a change. Have a lovely new DAB radio turn up today. Done a search but too many different comps to work out which one i won from though i suspect it may be a radio times win.