The Bankrupt Inn (part 4) New and Improved

MicheH

Nothing wrong with a curry every once in while. Oh sunny.. last courgette went yesterday! Never again!

Sunnylooloo

Yeah it is so hard, esp when I work with young girls who are all size 8's eek!! If I could loose about 7lb i would be much better, and yep I really try to cut out takeaways as much as poss - but a friday treat is good eh?

haha glad you got rid of the last one Mich.

Just waiting for OH to get home and then we'll order.

xx

MicheH

YiPeE! We've been invited to a summer wedding! So exciting. We have to travel to Surrey but could do with a couple of nights in a hotel. I need a new dress.. oh, I need to lose weight too but that's just a minor (!) problem!

Ooooooooooooooooooh i'm so excited, and I just can't hide it!

Sunnylooloo

Ah Lovely!!! I love going away for a wedding!! I bet you will find a lovely outfit - fun shopping for it!! woo woo

x

confused76

yeay that's good news mich!! may the dress hunting commence!

Bethankim

hi guys

just to let you guys know im taking a break from here for a while i have some stuff to sort. those who see me on facebook have been wonderful mich and confused xxx

if anyone i chat to via pm want to find me pm me, i will be back but not for a bit..imay lurk but unless i feel ok wont post.

nothing to do with here and everything to do with life

xxxx

confused76

any time beth...don't blame you taking a break...keep in touch xx

fiveyearplan

Beth - I hope you're okay and we see you back soon!

nervousmother

Beth.... hope your ok luv, know i have not been around much but thinking of you and everyone really, just trying to sort my own head out.
If your online at the right time you will know im writing this at 4.45AM and thats not good, but as im not sleeping...
Oh dear. 1.5 bottles of vodka, its really not good.
I really hope all my friends on here have some happiness, some good freinds know what iv been through yet im also seeing you guys suffer, for alsorts of reasons really.
Just want to say, Your immediate family is importans, so are good freinds. Life is for living... to be enjoyed no matter what is happening there will be some good things even if not seen straight away.
im a bit soppy at the minute but even though iv not met you all i hope you laugh, have fun and enjoy life xxx

MicheH

Beth, Hi my lovely x

nm. I guess you're going through the grieving process one way or another. And knowing from experience that once that process is over and done with, so to speak, then you can find the strength, the willpower to motivate yourself into moving on. I wonder whether it's worth asking yourself what part of the process your dealing with now.. shock and searching, anger or depression and then resolution. Maybe by sussing out where your at with dealing what has happened you can take strength from knowing this is a natural process and what your going through is what your mind is doing to help you get over it. Nothing you can do about it but it will help you in the long run.

I hate soap boxes but I'm going to step on one right now. What ever I say is meant to help you not criticise or patronise, something dear to my heart as my mam drank a lot to block out and to try to get some sleep when she was hurting. This is something you can help yourself with - the sleep part of it. I know that drinking alcohol will help you drop off to sleep but it's also a b*ggar for waking you up mid sleep pattern, resulting in a very tired you which snowballs into tired depression. Your poor little head is surrounded by thoughts and worries, anxieties even, all cause by what is going on - that in itself isn't going to help with the sleeping, alcohol will just make it so much worse. Bannish the bottle nm eh?

to quote you.

nervousmother wrote: »

Just want to say, Your immediate family is importans, so are good freinds. Life is for living... to be enjoyed no matter what is happening there will be some good things even if not seen straight away.

You know the score, you know you're going to get through this, you know what is important and you know that your not going to let yourself be down forever BUT right now you need to be 'down' because in the long run it will help you get over it.

You will laugh, have fun and enjoy life, just not yet, life has kicked again but you will move on and the pain will subside somewhat.

Take care, look after yourself x