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Update - Feeling Much Happier Now

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Since I originally came on here and got kicked up the backside by you lot, I have sorted out quite a lot. I have sold loads of stuff on ebay and paid off the overdraft and the debt has gone down by about £1000 in spite of having problems with OH van, dental bills and paying for son's exams. I have saved up some money for our move and I am paying over £1000 off the debts this month. The boat is going to be put up for sale next week so that will help. There is only one more payment of the school fees to go (hooray) and that is the end of it. I have had a long chat with OH. I put it to him that we move into rented accomodation and pay off all our debts and we sat down and went through all the figures but finally came to the conclusion that it would be more cost effective to go ahead with the purchase of the house we are buying. We are buying it at £205,000 but it has the potential to be worth £300,000. The area is very central and prices are still going up here.He works in the building trade and he says theres a mini boom going on at the moment, everything is sold before it is built, probably because of the sellers pack that is coming out next year. He doesnt think that house prices are going to go down here at all. If we rented we would be paying about £700-£800 and the mortgage is only £150 more and next June we can remortgage anyway.

Also our mortgage is over 10 years so it will be paid off sooner. We are going to try to keep all the debts at 0% and once we move (should be in the next few weeks) we are going to try to pay it all off in a year. So wish me luck!
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  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    Good luck! And I am so glad you are feeling happier. You've done well to pay £1000 off debts....keep the momentum going!

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  • jessicamb
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    Well done Tesuhoha

    I read your earlier thread and I'm glad you're feeling better.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
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    Tesuhoha
    glad you are feeling happier today & that you are so motivated
    hope that the move goes well-keep your eye on that ball!!
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  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Good news...just keep plugging away at it.. Great that you & DH on the same page too...
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  • Sea78
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    Glad to see that you're feeling more positive - you've done so well so far! Hope the move goes well and isn't so stressful :)

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  • saverram
    saverram Posts: 120 Forumite
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    All the Best. I wish everthing will go as per your plan.
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  • QueenB.
    QueenB. Posts: 1,083 Forumite
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    Its great to see you feeling so much better, i know the last few weeks have been a bit stressful.

    You are doing so well with your debts so keep it going.

    Good luck with the move, fingers crossed eveything goes as smoothly as possible for you.
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  • Mrs(no)money
    Mrs(no)money Posts: 412 Forumite
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    Its not luck you need - you have everything you need, good old common sense, understanding, good advice for others and discipline... Well done on getting this far and im pleased to hear you sounding much more positive :j
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  • oops_a_daisy
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    wow you are doing really well - an inspiration to us all :)
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