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Earn more than your man? What not to do...

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  • surreysaver
    surreysaver Posts: 5,269 Forumite
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    In this day and age, does it matter if the woman or man makes more money?

    Well, as men are not entitled to take a year off if they have a baby, then they should earn more money, as there's no point a woman earning it if she's taking a year off!
    I consider myself to be a male feminist. Is that allowed?
  • surreysaver
    surreysaver Posts: 5,269 Forumite
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    I find a lot of women do not want to earn more than their partners, as they do not want the responsibility. I would love for my partner to earn more than me so I could be the main parent, but she doesn't want to.
    I consider myself to be a male feminist. Is that allowed?
  • I find a lot of women do not want to earn more than their partners, as they do not want the responsibility.

    I think you need to change your signature!
  • surreysaver
    surreysaver Posts: 5,269 Forumite
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    sujester wrote: »
    I think you need to change your signature!

    Nah. I am just stating that it's a women's world - they have the choice, and men just have to do what we're told.
    I consider myself to be a male feminist. Is that allowed?
  • I don't think it matters either way, but it sounds like this friend is doing it on purpose.
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    i used to work for a guy who had a younger wife
    however she made far more than him
    they split the house chores 50/50 except she just paid someone to do her half
    he hated that :rotfl:
  • nearlyrich
    nearlyrich Posts: 13,698 Forumite
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    When my DH had a job his total wage and my basic were similar, I have always had commission and bonuses on top. Now he is retired on a decent pension and I am saving as much as I can for my own early retirement. I don't worry about earning more and neither does he and it's no-one else's business but ours,
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