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hello again all you lovely people
I have lost the will to become debt free please help
total debt jan 06= £15441.97 dfw nerd no 112 proud to be dealing with my debts.

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  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Mrs A - what happened? What impulse buys do you want right now??
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • keith_lard
    keith_lard Posts: 517 Forumite
    DON'T QUIT!
    When things go wrong as they sometimes will
    When the road you're trudging seems all up hill
    When the funds are low and the debts are high
    And you want to smile, but you have to sigh
    When care is pressing you down a bit
    Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

    Life is queer, with its twists and turns
    As everyone of us sometimes learns
    And many a failure turns about
    When he/she might have won had he/she stuck it out
    Don't give up though the pace seems slow
    You may succeed with another blow.

    Success is failure turned inside out
    The silver tint of the clouds of doubt
    And you never can tell how close you are
    It may be near when it seems so far
    So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit
    It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.:A :A :A :A :A
    If you want to see a rainbow, you have to get used to the rain.
  • CosmoCat
    CosmoCat Posts: 681 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    oh mrs. A! sorry to hear that you're losing sight of the end. why don't you tell us what's happened.

    (((hugs)))
    MFW Newbie - #17. (#116 in 2019)
    New Mortgage at Nov 19 - £273 499
    Current Balance - £268 225
    Want to cut down 26 year mortgage by 9 years!
    New MF date 2036 :dance:
  • tru
    tru Posts: 9,138 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic
    Errrrmm...............have a minstrel?

    Galaxy_Minstrels_Standard_Bag.jpg
    I felt really rubbish over the weekend, crying on saturday morning because I'm sick of having no money, son left school on friday and that makes me feel so OLD (at 35) and I just want to spend spend spend which is weird cos I hate shopping :confused:
    Bulletproof
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,639 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Aww , it can only get better
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • mrs a, it will get better, to days just a down day, think postive :)

    btw keith can i snag that to print it out and stick on my wall?
  • keith_lard
    keith_lard Posts: 517 Forumite
    btw keith can i snag that to print it out and stick on my wall?

    Of Course you can!

    Its something I found on the internet, gives me a kick in the right place when I need it!
    If you want to see a rainbow, you have to get used to the rain.
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    It must be one of those days for alot of us (possibly horrible muggy weather)...just think what that awful fear was like at the lighbulb/rockbottom time & then see how far you have come so far & then visualise the sheer, total & utter joy when you finally make it! Big hug!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

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