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national debt helpline

hiya
just thought i'd let you know that i spoke to the National Debt Helpline, i have been putting it off for a while....the lady i spoke to was sooo helpful and didn't sound like she was judging me and didn't criticize me.
If you are putting off that call, don't, you will feel better for making it!

I am defo going down the br route now...just need to get my paperwork submitted. Scary but i'm going for it x

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  • sieve
    sieve Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    Well done confused, that's the biggest first step you could take towards getting out of the situation you are in. Good work!

    You know where we are if you need help with the forms.

    Cheers,

    S
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  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
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    thanks Sieve - congrats on the early discharge, you must be relieved :-)
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    well...i'll let the monkey say it all

    wdon7.jpg

    and thats the worse bit done now....once the phonecall is done everything else will be a piece of cake
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • MicheH
    MicheH Posts: 2,631 Forumite
    I remember taking the guts to make that call, I was so quiet she couldn't hear me. I was choked trying to get the words out 'I would like some help with my debt' She knew straight away to treat me with kid gloves and I appreciated that. I was talking to her for ages and by the end of it I was confidently asking questions that I never thought I'd ever admit to never mind actually ask.

    That first call is so scary isn't it but after that call you just know that it's going to be ok and get some strength. Like Phil says, it just all falls into place from then on.

    Well done and fab for posting this, many onlookers will take strength from it i'm sure x
  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
    edited 20 October 2009 at 11:59AM
    Good luck confused, we are presently going down the BR route, our hearing is booked for late November, that was the earliest date possible and we booked it in September. There are loads of people in the same boat, and the posters on this site are brilliant. Any questions, just ask because someone will always give you an answer, and usually pretty quickly as well.
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    and WISE too late!
  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    thanks everyone, hope you're having a good weekend x
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