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Oh canceled the wedding
kittycatnbex
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OH canceled the wedding what am i ment 2 do?
oh said she dose not want 2 marry me my world has just blowen apart. where do i start ahh.
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((hugs))
Did she say that she wants to cancel altogether or postpone? You were getting married in April, weren't you?Don't worry about typing out my username - Call me COMP(Unless you know my real name - in which case, feel free to use that just to confuse people!)0 -
is she just not ready for marriage yet? or at all? is it the marriage or the relationship that is worrying her?0
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So so sorry to hear thatkittycatnbex wrote: »OH canceled the wedding what am i ment 2 do?
oh said she dose not want 2 marry me my world has just blowen apart. where do i start ahh.

A long talk with her is needed it may just be that it's all getting a bit overwhelming.
Hope things work out for you (hug)Dept free with savings (At last)
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Oh I'm sorry. Is the whole relationship over or is she just not ready for the commitment?
It will be tough, get support from your family & friends, whilst you get your head straight.
xxx"Normal is not something to aspire to - it is something to get away from" - Jodie Foster0 -
hugs kittycatnbex0
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Your OH may just have cold feet but sometimes it is better to know now rather than wait until you are standing in front of the celebrant and she changes her mind.
I think you need to have a good long chat with her - don't shout (although you may feel like doing that - don't), listen to what she has to say. It could be that she does want to marry you but just not yet.
Good luck.0
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