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What time do you leave?

paulies_nixie
paulies_nixie Posts: 607 Forumite
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edited 14 September 2009 at 1:48PM in Weddings & anniversaries
Silly question.
I'm trying to work out the timings, (evening buffet thread made me think about it)

My wedding is at 4pm(just confirmed the registra today EEEEEeeee SO exciting)
so there will be the civil ceremony, the blessing/handfasting.
The hotchocolate reception bit. I'm thinking it's comming up to 5pm then.
Nibbly bits with mulled wine or hotchoc - whatever's ya preference.

photo's and posing, dinner just after 6,
then give folk till mebbe half eight to munch and dance and listen to the story teller cut cake etc.
then KABOOOM fireworks.

as a bride and groom would you leave after the fireworks? be heading towards 9pm then.
I'm thinking if we did that it would give all the folk with kids a good break off point to get the littleuns back to various hotels and settled down.

If you're a married lurker - when did you leave your 'do' ???

I'm suddenly irrationally concerned about it :rotfl:

Ta

Nixie
"I know that Prince Charming doesn’t come save me, we save each other and fight back to back against all comers that’s what marriage is to me. Nothing passive, no being carried off on a white steed, give me my own damn horse and lets ride into the sunset side by side." - Laurell K. Hamilton.

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  • Think we'll be quite late leaving as we're staying on site! Although depending how tired we are we might slope off to our cabin early!!!
    "Normal is not something to aspire to - it is something to get away from" - Jodie Foster
  • Our venue is a bar/restuarant which has its own private nightclub downstairs. We're having a 3 course meal in the upstairs restuarant then going downstairs to the club for a couple of hours of mingling, evening food served at 6.30pm and a DJ starting at 7pm. The venue has made it clear that we have the downstairs exclusive only until 10pm, as then they want to open it to the general public for their usual Saturday club night. So we're planning to leave then at 10pm, but our guests can either stay in the club or go upstairs to the more relaxed bar area, but it seems like a good point for us to make an exit.
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    We're having our whole day at a hotel and the bar is open until 1am. I know me and OH will still be there at that time saying our goodbyes to friends and family.
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  • SUESMITH_2
    SUESMITH_2 Posts: 2,093 Forumite
    ive been married 21 years, we got married at 3pm, had a sit down meal then a disco and buffet

    we stayed to the bitter end 12ish and had a fab time

    didnt want the day to end iykwim
    'We're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time
  • stef240377
    stef240377 Posts: 2,798 Forumite
    Our ceremony is at 2pm, reception drinks are scheduled for 4pm with sit down meal at approx 4.30pm.Guests for evening are to arrive 7/7.30pm. Evening buffet is to opened at 8.30pm and cake to be cut and served as desert at 9.30pm. Closed bar at midnight so guests can start disappearing and i can finally get off to bed lol.
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  • rene2b
    rene2b Posts: 827 Forumite
    we are staying at the hotal with all our wedding party
    but dj in the room will only be there till 12ish
    we will stay till the death!lol
    then we can have a drink or 2-3 in the hotal bar
  • Hi there! Our wedding finishes at 12.30am and I really think I would like to stay all the way until then because I wouldn't want to miss something lol!! I think if you have kids you will just go anyway at a time which you think is best, that is what I would do if I had my DD with me. We are staying at the hotel where we will get married and we aren't going on honeymoon the next day or anything so will definitely be having a lie in!!

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