best man and bridesmaids?

Dave101t

getting married next month, i havent asked anyone to be best man and my fiancee says she isnt having any bridesmaids.

im not bothered either way as its only a small registry office affair but how many of you who have had a similar small wedding, didnt have one, or either?

do i really need a best man? does she need bridesmaids?

LucyB-Bride_to_Be

I'm having a small wedding and having 2 bridesmaids. OH isn't having a best man. I wasn't even going to have bridesmaids until i got coerced into it! No you don't need either as long as you've got your 2 witnesses

Naf20

H2B is having 2 bestmen and I'm having no bridesmaids. I don't see anything wrong with not having a bestman. Makes it much simpler in my opinion!

notsayingaword

No bridesmaids, best man or even guests! We only invited our parents who were our witnesses.

lucylouwoo

We have got 2 best men and 4 bridesmaids, but thats our choice, don't feel like you have to ask people just because it's what's expected of you, go with whatever you want, it's your day after all!!!!

joolesw1972

You don't need either if you don't want them, just you two & two witnesses, have a lovely day & enjoy it x

shellsuit

The only thing you need are 2 witnesses, but you don't even have to know them, you could just drag 2 people in off the street if they agree to it for you.

You can have 14 bridesmaids and no best men or 2 best men and no bridesmaids etc etc.....it's totally upto you

Dave101t

thanks for that, i was beginning to question my judgement but in the end, its going exactly how we want it and that must surely be the best way!

shellsuit

Dave101t wrote: »

thanks for that, i was beginning to question my judgement but in the end, its going exactly how we want it and that must surely be the best way!

Course it's the best way ~ Good luck with it all