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To Bankruptcy And Beyond !! BR TODAY

Hi,

My DH and I went Bankrupt this morning.

It has been a long stressful journey to reach this point but we have battled through and the deed is done.

I was never expecting to feel 'happy', I just feel sad that we had to go BR,..... BUT a funny kind of relief that the court process is all over with and we have a new beginning to look forward to.

We got to court when it opened at 8.30 (its a drop in service), waited for 'the girl who does the BR's to start' and at 9.30 she called us to the counter,she was friendly and commented on how well our forms had been filled in (well it only took us 3 days to complete them!!!) she checked our forms over, we swore on the bible, we signed and paid our fees and was told to go downstairs and wait to be seen by the judge. NOW I started to feel more nervous.

I had visions of an old bloke in robes and wig however our Lady judge couldnt of been nicer. She said she had looked at our BR forms, could see we had taken professional advice and that on our level of income we couldnt possibly make any inroads to our debt so she would be granting us our BR orders. She expressed concern over our dealings with Debt Advice Network and hoped we hadnt paid any money to this company who had let us down so badly. She was so kind and I walked out in tears!!

We then had to wait to speak to the OR, a brief phone call confirming our details and what bank acc we used for wages etc. He then said he had about 30 cases to deal with so would be in touch either by letter or phone in the next couple of weeks.

We left court at 11.15 feeling numb. As the day has worn on I am starting to feel a huge sense of relief. Ok we have the OR interview to deal with, the probable loss of our car and the worry over our home but we no longer have to deal with creditors hounding us, phone calls every day and endless letters demanding payment.

A new beginning awaits.......

Thankyou to all the people who post on this forum, your advice and experiences have meant so much to me.:A

Angie xxxxx

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  • I went BR today. Can understand your feelings completely.

    See it as a new start and dont look back x
  • Lost2
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    ththCongratulations-1.gif To Both of you :)
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  • Congratulations hun x
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  • dollparts
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    Well done. Glad it wasn't too much of an ordeal x
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  • pmg19680
    pmg19680 Posts: 483 Forumite
    Congratulations angiepange :beer:
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  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Well done on facing the difficult step...its a tough challenge & the feeling of numbness seems to be the norm.....but now you are both able to move on.

    Take care,

    Angiex
  • Sammy3008
    Sammy3008 Posts: 323 Forumite
    Congratulations to the both of you Angie, at least you can feel debt free now :T

    Do keep in touch, hope your OR interview goes well.
    We are just awaiting the financial advisor getting back to us, they don't rush :rolleyes:

    Take care,
    Sam. x
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