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Child maintenence stopping

hello all,

I am currently the main carer of my child, and my ex partner has just walked out of his job, thus giving me no child maintenence at all now.

so i was just wondering where i go from here in terms of trying to get money to support my child, as i am losing a large slice of my income due to the my partner leaving his job.


any help or advice would be great

thanks
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  • shell_542
    shell_542 Posts: 1,333 Forumite
    Are you working?
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  • yes part time only 16hrs per week.
  • i have been trawling the site and it seems that if my ex walks out of his job then there really is nothing that i can do, unless he admits that he left his job for the reason of not paying CSA
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    staceyonz wrote: »
    i have been trawling the site and it seems that if my ex walks out of his job then there really is nothing that i can do, unless he admits that he left his job for the reason of not paying CSA

    Sorry to learn that, it does seem he does not feel it fair working full time whilst you work part time and get lots of help (perhaps) and then he has to give a large proportion away (even if it be for his child who he may not see) sadly for some if it is not worth their while working , then they simply don't goto work :o
  • i understand that, but i dont actually get any other help monetary or otherwise.

    he had been paying CSA for a good 6 years or so, so im surprised that its has ended.

    im just a little disappointed that the goverment dont offer more support in these circumstances.
  • shell_542
    shell_542 Posts: 1,333 Forumite
    If he signs on then you may receive the minimum £5 a week. Not a great deal but it might help.

    Have you contacted the job centre to ensure you are receiving all that you are entitled to? Child tax credits, working tax credits, help with child care? Are you renting or is the house owned?
    August GC 10th - 10th : £200 / £70.61
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  • Bowski_1011
    Bowski_1011 Posts: 1,041 Forumite
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    Do you not receive working/child tax credits?
    Initial Debt July 2020 - £6,772.80
    Debt now Jan 2021 - £6,208.21
    Overpayment pot - £0
  • i only receive child benefit.

    i have a mortgage on a house that i have with my new partner.
  • shell_542
    shell_542 Posts: 1,333 Forumite
    Unless you and your new partner earn over £55,000 a year combined, then you will qualify for some tax credits. Have you never applied for them?
    August GC 10th - 10th : £200 / £70.61
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  • DUTR wrote: »
    Sorry to learn that, it does seem he does not feel it fair working full time whilst you work part time and get lots of help (perhaps) and then he has to give a large proportion away (even if it be for his child who he may not see) sadly for some if it is not worth their while working , then they simply don't goto work :o

    She didn't say if he worked full time, nor whether the ex partner felt it was fair if she only worked part time! Where did that come from?

    If you don't qualify for extra working tax credits as another poster suggested, you may have to look at increasing your hours, if your child is old enough to do this. I don't know of any extra financial support in your situation, but good luck, I know how you feel (been there) x
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