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Life_Tasted_Sweet

ive calmed down a bit now. the medication helps.

thank you to dutr/dippychick for your constructive advise. this is my final post.i plan to continue to love my children and to cope with my depression.

lts

Mips

Life_Tasted_Sweet wrote: »

ive calmed down a bit now. the medication helps.

thank you to dutr/dippychick for your constructive advise. this is my final post.i plan to continue to love my children and to cope with my depression.

lts

Don't let the love you have for your child, be tainted by the CSA. Keep in mind that paying Child Support is NOT forever and nor is your depression

Try and agree outside of CSA - you may be suprised.. but missing any payments and not being forthcoming/ignoring 'phone calls etc is not going to get you seen in a favourable light.

You could always threaten to kill yourself though.. that usually stops some PWCs going for blood via the CSA

Blue_Horizon

I am not sure but does anyone else thnk that this may be a wind up?

loobyloo0302

Hmmm. Something tells me that it's not your depression that makes you charge your ex wife babysitting money to have your kids.

I'm both a NRPP and a mother myself. I would neither allow my partner to charge his ex wife to see his kids nor would I pay him to see our children. Its beyond belief... I think maybe wind up also.

The CSA is depressing.. but you don't have a choice.. just think, there are so many NRP/second families in your situation, and as someone has previously mentioned, the CSA will not be part of your life forever.