***Pah its Monday again- Daily Chat***

Lucifa73

sallyx wrote: »

thanks...yes and Luc everything was very pink..think thats part of being 3/4!

The whole pink girly thing passed me by. So wasn't my thing but I think if I'd had a wee girl I'd have been making up for lost time:rotfl:

Buffythedebtslayer

sammy115 wrote: »

Buffy - could you take her out to Bingo or something maybe one night a week.....

No, she'd never go.

If I could drive I would drag her every where!

bloody useless driving instructor !

spud30

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Can you post a piccie of the drum? I don't know what one of them is and I don't like to be ignorant:D:rotfl:

I cant do pics hun, but here you go

b3nton

So glad monday is over.
Now to crack open a beer

Lucifa73

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Of course you aren't out of line Luc xx

Basically she (and me to some extent) is trying to keep to the routine she has always known, dinner every night, roast on sundays. It must not change cos then she starts to feel useless and has nothing to do. I spend pretty much most nights with her, but that is tv watching and you don't talk during the programmes. it doesn't matter what time i spend with her she only notices the things I miss. And she is never horrible about it just sad which leads to me feeling guilty. And she probably isn't even sad about that, she misses my Dad.

Its an impossible situation to be honest, I can't replace my Dad obviously, but she is much much better then she was (as I am!) she goes out with our neighbour and is cooking new stuff. She has semi planned a trip to visit my sister.

Hopefully with my plans for the holidays things should improve, in terms of me not worrying so much and being hyper organised so I can spend time with her without worrying about work.

phew. now I ve got that off my chest!

back to farming!! xxxx

Cool - it was just a thought. I don't know how long ago you lost your Dad but it sounds like she's making progress. Maybe you should suggest you make a new routine together (once you think she's strong enough) as a part of the process of moving on? Even if it means you commit to eating together twice a week and once at the weekend. That way you could do other things in the week and not need to use the internet to find a decent fella (and there are more out there than you might imagine;))

Lucifa73

spud30 wrote: »

I cant do pics hun, but here you go

Cool ta

I don't have one of them but I do have a wee goatskin drum my Dad brought home when he finished soldiering in The Gambia. Its one of my most cherished possessions...

And on that note I'm taking my lightweight cider fuzzed brain to bed.

Night all

Luc xxx

Buffythedebtslayer

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Cool - it was just a thought. I don't know how long ago you lost your Dad but it sounds like she's making progress. Maybe you should suggest you make a new routine together (once you think she's strong enough) as a part of the process of moving on? Even if it means you commit to eating together twice a week and once at the weekend. That way you could do other things in the week and not need to use the internet to find a decent fella (and there are more out there than you might imagine;))

Yeah I am working on the new routine, in theory we will break the old one whilst I am off :rolleyes: and then I will do things differently next term. I tried before but it was too much too soon. Baby steps, its my new mantra!

xxx

Lucifa73

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Yeah I am working on the new routine, in theory we will break the old one whilst I am off :rolleyes: and then I will do things differently next term. I tried before but it was too much too soon. Baby steps, its my new mantra!

xxx

That's probably right;)

Before I go - Beanie what's happeining with the Edinburgh meet? I want to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet people (stomps foot in tipsy huff)

Lenza_Quidditch

ZTD wrote: »

DLI in Durham?

Also there's a old POW camp on the way to Frosterly from Crook.

North East Air Museum at Nissan?

Cheers Z - much appreciated - I'll go and have a look :beer:

beanielou

SoLuc will your DH be off from tomorrow then?