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1 month since the lightbulb moment - Thanks!

Hi All

Well is has been a month now since I realised something had to change and just wanted to share something my husband said to me last night - which made me feel really proud...

He said 'your whole attitude to money has changed, and I am really impressed - whereas before you worried incessantly about money but didn't do anything about it now you see it as a challenge'

I felt really chuffed because although I haven't made a massive indent in the last month a few things have changed - by now I would always be over my OD limit (by about £20-200) but this month I am (just!) inside. Also I have transferred £2,500 from my credit card to an interest free one (the most I could), and finally I have not touched those credit cards once.

Small steps in the right direction! So thanks a million to you all! :T

Comments

  • Annie_Fanny
    Annie_Fanny Posts: 1,167 Forumite
    That is brilliant! Well done!

    Scholt, never underestimate the small steps they become giant strides forward! Besides I think you are playing down what you have achieved -
    you have kept within your overdraft
    you applied and were accepted for a 0% credit card
    and you have not used your credit cards for purchases...

    BRILLIANT RESULT!

    Have you got yourself a budget? Posted a Statement of Affairs (SOA) on here? Achieving this and sticking to it will mean you will have extra ££ to make sure the overdraft and credit card debts will begin to shrink!

    Keep on trucking...

    Annie
    "Debt makes plans for you" - A quote from my friend Catherine. How true!
  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    :T

    Well done scholt on turning things around.

    I think what you have done in a month is great and you should be rightly proud!

    I know exactly what your hubby means about seeing it as a challenge....I think I do now as well even if it is a bit of a pain at times. Posting on here (challenges, spends etc) really helps too, do you think?

    Keep up the great work and remember every penny helps!! :D

    Have a great money saving week. x
    Bank Balance: In the black for the moment.
    Sainsburys Loan: Cleared July 2010
    Credit cards: AMEX Airmiles Card: direct debit set to clear balance monthly
  • scholt
    scholt Posts: 245 Forumite
    Thanks both!

    I haven't done an SOA yet - my circumstances are changing a bit (new job starting on Monday, had an offer accepted on our first house) but when everything settles down I fully intend to.

    It actually feels good being so much more responsible with money though - refreshing!
  • amosworks
    amosworks Posts: 1,831 Forumite
    Cool, it's nice when someone close to you really encourages you :) Well done!! :)
  • oops_a_daisy
    oops_a_daisy Posts: 2,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Name Dropper Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    :T Well done sholt :T

    it gets addictive too LOL
    :cool: Official DFW Nerd Club Member #37 Debt free Feb 07 :cool:
  • great stuff, just keep focused and the months will fly by :)
    Debt at highest £16k+
    Debt at lightbulb moment £14,800
    Current debt £6336
    Cleared £4206 in November 05 How ? Bye Bye PPI :)
  • Hey, it's been a whole month for me too!

    Congrats...

    It really is a case of seeing things differently, and it seems to be working for both of us at the moment!

    I haven't really made any inroads on debts at the moment as I'm still in the 'sorting things out' stage but the thing I'm most pleased about is that I've avoided racking up any more debt for a whole month now!

    I couldn't tell you the last month when I didn't accrue any debt... probably about 10 years ago!

    James
    Total Debt: Owe about £19,000 on credit cards plus £24,000 which is my half of joint loans.
  • black-saturn
    black-saturn Posts: 13,937 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Well done and keep up the good work!! :beer:
    2008 Comping Challenge
    Won so far - £3010 Needed - £230
    Debt free since Oct 2004
  • BACKFRMTHEEDGE
    BACKFRMTHEEDGE Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    Congrats :j :beer: :T :j :beer: :T :j :beer: :T
    A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

    Savings For Kids 1st Jan 2019 £16,112
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