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Advice From A NewlyWed

Hi all,

We just got married in a tiny £500 wedding. Everything was wonderful but we learned a few valuable lessons:

* I decided to do my own flowers and left the assembly til the morning of the wedding. Even though I'd practised it took longer than I'd estimated and I had to rush. For one bridal bouquet, one big corsage and three buttonholes allow one hour.

* If you're having a tiny wedding make sure you have a back-up witness so that if one of your witnesses drops out a fortnight before there is someone ready to step in.

* Make sure your cake boxes are big enough. We ended up sticking two together for each slice.

* If you have temperamental teeth see a dentist two months before the wedding so that you're less likely to develop raging toothache the night before the big day. (Luckily this didn't happen to us, but it was a close call!)

* If you shop around and use Freecycle you can cut High Street costs in half, at least.

*Use lots of suncream if you go on a sunny honeymoon. I came back part-cremated from the Scottish Borders!

Hope this helps someone.
Debt-free day: 8th May 2015 "Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck," Dalai Llama

Comments

  • bluezone
    bluezone Posts: 772 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    thanks for your input - congrats on getting married xx
    😁
  • Ruthie5
    Ruthie5 Posts: 203 Forumite
    Thanks for your advice! Maybe we should have a regular thread of things we learned/wished we had done etc?
  • rinroo
    rinroo Posts: 946 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Congratulations on your wedding and thanks for your tips.

    Ruthe - great idea on the regular thread
  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    Congratulations ally - how are the old gnashers these days:D
  • allydowd
    allydowd Posts: 4,965 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Uniform Washer Name Dropper
    Gnashers are fine now. I could eat everything at the wedding...and I did...

    Thanks.
    Debt-free day: 8th May 2015 "Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck," Dalai Llama
  • Tigerlilley1980
    Tigerlilley1980 Posts: 1,197 Forumite
    Congratulations on your wedding. This should be made into the thread for newlyweds so we can all get lots of hints and tips. Did you use fresh flowers for your bouquet Ally? xx
    Married the most amazing man 05/12/09 and it was the best day ever, I'm a Mrs, he he!!
    :j
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  • lindaatno9
    lindaatno9 Posts: 2,092 Forumite
    I did my own flowers the night before and left them in the fridge. I gave them a misting of water after I had tied them and another just before bed time. They were absolutely fine.
  • allydowd
    allydowd Posts: 4,965 Forumite
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    My flowers were fresh, Tiger, wish I'd known the fridge tip. LOL
    Debt-free day: 8th May 2015 "Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck," Dalai Llama
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