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lightbulb moment

hi i am new to this and thankyou for your suport so far but was is the lightbulb moment i have read about peaple saying thanks
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  • Lightbulb moment = when you realise that the money you don't have won't cover the repayments on the money that wasn't yours in the first place.

    It's all about change, commitment, resolve and liberation.
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  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    It's the realisation that the time has come to change your spending habits and get rid of the debt, not by consolidating but by actually paying it off and stopping spending more than you have.
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  • the day it dawns on you that you have to get yourself sorted financially
  • Cantdance_2
    Cantdance_2 Posts: 200 Forumite
    The night when you lie awake sweating and wondering how you're going to eat this month when your salary goes in and your account is still over the overdraft limit!

    :rolleyes:
    Total Debt: Owe about £19,000 on credit cards plus £24,000 which is my half of joint loans.
  • dudleyboy
    dudleyboy Posts: 765 Forumite
    Lightbulb moment = when you realise that the money you don't have won't cover the repayments on the money that wasn't yours in the first place.

    Hahaha... very true. :laugh:

    So the next questions are...

    "When was it's first occurrence?" and "Who came up with it in the first place?"

    Was it Martin or another MSE contributor (like us)? Whoever it was... and whenever it was... we owe them a debt of gratitude (no pun intended) ;)
  • BACKFRMTHEEDGE
    BACKFRMTHEEDGE Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    The day you realise that all those small amounts you have fritted away matter. Also the day that you realise that things are not going to sort themselves out.

    TTFN :cool:
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  • For me it was my other half in tears when I eventually told her exactly how much I owed.
    From that day in November 2005 ive never looked back. £7,435 to go !
    Debt at highest £16k+
    Debt at lightbulb moment £14,800
    Current debt £6336
    Cleared £4206 in November 05 How ? Bye Bye PPI :)
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    for me its that realisation I was drowning in debt and robbing peter to pay paul is no longer an option. And also thinking about all the money Ive given to the banks over the years in interest & charges, and saying NO MORE for yu MR fat cat, its my turn now.
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • BACKFRMTHEEDGE
    BACKFRMTHEEDGE Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    thinking about all the money Ive given to the banks over the years in interest & charges, and saying NO MORE for yu MR fat cat,[/QUOTE]

    SooooooTrue.....If only we hadn't been so generous and kind!!!!!
    A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

    Savings For Kids 1st Jan 2019 £16,112
  • amosworks
    amosworks Posts: 1,831 Forumite
    My personal view of when the lightbulb moment occurs is that short space of time between you picking up a statement then hurling a string of expletives at it.
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