Fed up! P***ed off-things just dont get better!

DebtBgone_2

hey all im a bit its one step fprward three steps back today!!!!

with everything! would be great for people to share that you know when your on a low income and in deby slowly but surely things start to improve???????? im hoping without the help of a payment plan.!

im desperately unhappy at the moment with my depression and bills and debt and been over weight and havign an 8 month old-

my hubby just got a new job so lets hope that works out!

and to top it all off i have to have dinner with the in laws tomo who are monsters! x x x

boredofbeingathome

DebtBgone wrote: »

hey all im a bit its one step fprward three steps back today!!!!

That's life at times, bad things sometimes happen to good people, but at the end of the day it is picking yourself up all the time and keep fighting. Things will change and it is all about attitude. Only one day, tomorrow have a chill day, go and do something nice and free, pack a picnic and take a day away from your worries.

debtbegone wrote:

with everything! would be great for people to share that you know when your on a low income and in deby slowly but surely things start to improve???????? im hoping without the help of a payment plan.!

Good:DThey will and the key is slowly but surely.

debtbegone wrote:

im desperately unhappy at the moment with my depression and bills and debt and been over weight and havign an 8 month old-

It does at times, have been there before. Look though at how hard you are working for your little one's future. Count your blessings and take pleasure in seeing how well you are doing with your little one. Don't forget that you produced that child..what an achievement, is anything really as hard as childbirth? May sound soppy, but when you are in labour..nothing compares:rotfl:

debtbegone wrote:

my hubby just got a new job so lets hope that works out!

:beer::j
Well done

debtbegone wrote:

and to top it all off i have to have dinner with the in laws tomo who are monsters! x x x

You really haven't met mine:mad:Smile sweetly and remember your importance as the mother of their Grandchild. It always helped me to think of it in terms of all of us working together for future of children. Which i am sure is true. If they make snippy comments, ask how they would change things.. You will get through things, you are just a bit overwhelmed at the moment.

Have a good weekend.Bobx

Merlinexcalibur

and to top it all off i have to have dinner with the in laws tomo who are monsters! x x x

'Here there be dragons'. If you see what I mean? :D

boredofbeingathome

Merlinexcalibur wrote: »

'Here there be dragons'. If you see what I mean? :D

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Mine is green and is the wicked witch of the NE..can be seen on adverts at the moment, but is likely to fly in with monkey's soon:cool::rotfl::rotfl:That's after 24 years of marriage too. We have reached a state of entente cordiale at the moment...kind of:rotfl:

Sue-UU

I totally agree with all Bob's said, we all experience such times and to be honest, it helps keep us on our toes. The saying that "You have to experience bad times to be able to appreciate the good" is so true, try to bear it in mind.

Things'll look up now your hubby's got a new job, that in itself is great news, especially at a time when so many just can't seem able to get one due to the current financial climate.

Re the in-laws, everyone thinks they have the worst ones, but I think a lot of that could also be the way we 'wish' to view them. I know that was my problem first, til I realised just how good they really were with the kiddies and how very much my dear hubby was like them, and wasn't I fortunate in having him - who was just like them! So what was to moan about?! As Bob says, smile sweetly and give them a good lunch/day that they can remember all next week. They too will then be viewing you in a different light and see how lucky their lad is!

Look at all the good things in your life and count your blessings, not imaginery or temporary blips.;)

All the best for a bright future.

Sue