The Compers Inn - Part 17

katiekittykat

NoNameWoman wrote: »

Evening all

Katie, sorry about what you are going through...I hope that you will be properly looked after by your doctors and family and friends. Keep your spirits up hun, sometimes research online is overwhelming but I understand you want to be in the light about your condition. You are doing very well and I hope that you will beat all this pain very soon..you need to stay positive as hard as this may sound..just keep thinking this is hopefully temporary and will end soon. The first step is always the most difficult x

Thanks hun - i will try xxxx

rosemac

cathyj wrote: »

evening all,

having issues with my daughter and bedroom, so t make my point clear I wrote everything that needed to be done and stated a ban on all tv, dvd, ds and computer until tidy to my satisfaction, she started to moan that will be never etc, I told carry on and I will get a black sack and sort it out my self.

Well we will see,

May go to the fridge for a you know what

cathy do what i did when my son was 15 he is now 27 i opened his bedroom window and threw the lot out he was so embarrassed he ran outside pleading me to stop his room was never untidy again. He is now an officer in the navy and very tidy

cathyj

rosemac wrote: »

cathy do what i did when my son was 15 he is now 27 i opened his bedroom window and threw the lot out he was so embarrassed he ran outside pleading me to stop his room was never untidy again. He is now an officer in the navy and very tidy

pmsl
I would try this but a cant open the window because of the crap on the window sill and lve in a bungalow beth has a bedroom in the back so no one will see, may try it if she doesnt tidy up

bucks73

Evening all

MrsDrink

*waves* Hiya everyone!
How are you all doing! Hope you are all well!!
I'm good, work has been a bit mad and is going to get madder in the run up to the end of school year!
(Good luck to anyone who has even the smallest link to the end of KS2 Sats!)

My diet is going well I haven't been dead strict, (like tomorrow night we are going to the In-Law's for a steak night and I've brought the most scrummiest chocolate pudding!) but I have been very good with the wii fit! (I have managed to do 5 x 30 mins jogging since I was last here!!!) So fingers crossed come half term I'll be 7lbs lighter!

I'm hanging about for 30mins or so, so you can talk to me without fear that I'm not going to reply lol!

NoNameWoman

Cathy, I am not an expert obviously since I am not a mum but I can tell you that they can be very sensitive at this age and I know it is easier said than done but if you can manage to make her see she is wrong without an encounter (don't ask me how...no idea!!), but she would probably respond a lot better. I think they like to be treated as grown ups and mates etc rather than get told off?? Again please ignore me since I have never had any experiece in this regard.

cathyj

The problem is we are so alike and clash, often oh has to calm things down, she has done it, I havent looked but oh has approved it.

MrsDrink

How old is she Cathy?
Lol I was awful to my mum around the age of 13-14. A complete and utter cow. Unbelievably rude to her boyfriend (they are still together).
I'm very glad to say I grew up and we all get on really well now. Infact when I was at Uni it was her boyfriend that I used to email frequently!

cathyj

MrsDrink wrote: »

How old is she Cathy?
Lol I was awful to my mum around the age of 13-14. A complete and utter cow. Unbelievably rude to her boyfriend (they are still together).
I'm very glad to say I grew up and we all get on really well now. Infact when I was at Uni it was her boyfriend that I used to email frequently!

11 going on 15:rotfl:

rosemac

cathyj wrote: »

The problem is we are so alike and clash, often oh has to calm things down, she has done it, I havent looked but oh has approved it.

cathy when you look give her a well done my son and i never clashed but he was so laid back it was unbelievable but his room stank as any male teenagers room does when they dont look after it stinking socks etc even though he was very clean about himself he would just strip and leave everything lying also never put anything away:mad: