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Really starting to get fed up

Not posted for a while but am sooooooooo fed up tonight guys!!! Feel like I'm treading water and getting absolutely f***ing nowhere :(:(:( 4 days after payday and already it's all gone. So sick of living like this.

Boyfriend's away on call at the weekend so it might be time to get all the paperwork out and update the SOA...hope it's not as bad as I fear. So sick of feeling like this :(:(:(
Debt at LBM July 2013: [STRIKE]£46,085.88[/STRIKE] :eek: Debt today: £36,501.67

20.8% down, 79.2% to go!

The quicker I'm debt free, the quicker I'll be Mrs. H! Date to beat: April 2018

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  • angelicmary85
    angelicmary85 Posts: 4,977 Forumite
    Hi ellerose,

    You're sounding a bit like how I feel!! When I start to feel a bit s!!tty, I go and look on the payment a day thread coz everyone there is always so bloody cheery!
    Started PADdin' 13/04/09 paid £7486.66 - CC free 02/11/10
    Aim for 2011 - pay off car loan £260.00 saved
    Nerd No. 1173! :j
    Made by God...Improved by the The Devil :D
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    ellerose wrote: »
    Not posted for a while but am sooooooooo fed up tonight guys!!! Feel like I'm treading water and getting absolutely f***ing nowhere :(:(:( 4 days after payday and already it's all gone. So sick of living like this.

    I was feeling like this a couple of weeks ago, I think well all do sometimes :rolleyes: Look at your siggy and feel proud of what you've achieved so far :A and remember before your LBM not onlu would you have not been paying off your debts, but actually increasing them :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Hi ellerose,

    Your sig shows how well you've been doing, so dont be down. I know it can be cr4ppy sometimes, but like angelicmary said, keep posting (or lurking) and you'll see you're not alone, some people are better off, some are worse off but everyone bends over backwards to support each other and offer some great tips.

    Maybe when you've looked at your SOA again you could post it and we can help ease your stress a little bit.

    Have a big weird threesome hug. :grouphug:

    ETO
    SPC 18 Target £200 /
  • angelicmary85
    angelicmary85 Posts: 4,977 Forumite

    Have a big weird threesome hug. :grouphug:

    ETO


    HAHA!! That weird 3some hug thing freaks me out!! :rotfl:
    Started PADdin' 13/04/09 paid £7486.66 - CC free 02/11/10
    Aim for 2011 - pay off car loan £260.00 saved
    Nerd No. 1173! :j
    Made by God...Improved by the The Devil :D
  • ellerose
    ellerose Posts: 202 Forumite
    Thanks guys, knew posting would cheer me up!! I know we're all in the same boat one way or another. My horoscope this morning that my money trouble would soon be over...don't normally listen to them but I liked that one!! Will spend some proper time on the SOA soon, and update my sig...not sure it's changed much though!!
    Debt at LBM July 2013: [STRIKE]£46,085.88[/STRIKE] :eek: Debt today: £36,501.67

    20.8% down, 79.2% to go!

    The quicker I'm debt free, the quicker I'll be Mrs. H! Date to beat: April 2018
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