Frustrated, fed up and want to give up!

thatcherschild

It's all going so slow! Still nothing from CCCS (be two weeks tomorrow since they said they'd send out the forms) and still no bank cards for the new account, hubby's work don't know which account wages will go into (old account or new one!) so I don't know what the hell to do about mortgage, electric, gas direct debits etc.

I started my new part time job today, the children hate being in childcare full time (they'll be back at school next week which will be easier) and I've no time to do uni work let alone the house which is falling apart).

Just fed up and had enough. My relationship is falling apart, I resent him for getting us into this mess, I resent him for doing nothing around the house without being nagged, I resent him for leaving everything up to me.

dotstar24

awww babe (((hugs))) please dont get dispondant. it's hard but it will make you a stronger person. as for your OH, excuse me for being rude, but he needs a kick up the &rse!!! time for some tough love me thinks.

fluffig

You will get through it. Down days are c**p, but you'll have up days too. ))hug((

Tr@cker

Well at least you've got a job so many people cant get anything at all in the deep recession.

How did he get you in the poo ?

Tixy

Hi TC
We all have down days and after the initial rush and excitement of having our LBM I think people often then get fed up while things take time to settle.
Think of some positives you have achieved since you joined.
A new job is a positive even if it feels like you are only doing it to pay debt.

I think you need to have a proper talk to OH about how you feel and about wanting to tackle things as a team together - but today is probably not the day to do it - do it when you feel better about yourself and your situation.

Hugs - and hope you feel better tomorrow.
Don't know how long it normally takes for the CCCS forms but give them a call and request them again - or can you request online maybe?

Numpty_Monkey

Hi Mags

CCCS wil do there best, it took over a week for me to get my pack, and that was in the quiet time

I know its a pain in the arris (won't let us put !!!!):rolleyes:
Call your mortgagae, gas,electric companies, tell them you are changeing bank accounts, and you are awaiting the details, just be honest with them:A

the creditors can wait, Have you sent them a "templete " letter offering token payments,
I think the proper one is on National Debtline ,

:A

Cleosmum

(((hugs))) you are doing ok! The kids will soon get used to the new routine and be ok. You are doing all you can, well done you! Can you send OH to the shed???

thatcherschild

Thank you everyone. I do know I'm lucky to have a job right now but I wasn't in rational sensible mode last night, I was in fed up and had enough mode.

CCCS paper work has come today and the bank cards.

Still feeling a little fed up and low. Possibly need a good cry and then to get on with it!

Cheers everyone :T

Mags x x x

Cleosmum

Now I am a cry and get on with it gal, but my OH rolls his eyes and says but it doesnt solve anything! I find it does help to have a good cry....put on a weepy, or stub your toe, but have a hanky ready...:D

thatcherschild

I think every now and again a good cry does you wonders!

Cheers Cleosmum!