The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread - Part 3

jenjade

i am not sure how long i will be signed off sick at the moment. i am planning to hand my notice in Weds i ahev occupational health tues i will see what they say first. i really don't want to go into work so if i hand my notice in then get signed off another 2 weeks i will only has 2 weeks left to work if i feel better.

I was reading the form to occupation health my manager wrote,. it is so twisted!
It says the last week i worked "at times she made a small amount of effort"! That has made me so angry my daughter was off sick all week i think i made a huge amount of effort just going in! Monday i covered my work collegues groups. Tues i did my group worked through lunch cleaning then did a group at the school. weds i worked in nursery all day, Thursday i did my group then 2 lots of individual work, friday i did paperwork and one to one with one child i did not stop all week i was flat out as well as all that i did 3 little jobs she asked me to do in our meeting the week before! ontop that i felt like crap ans was fighting back the tears all week. i think that is a huge effort!! I have deciedeed what ever i do it will not be good enough for her. she doesn't like me and i don;t like her! I can't wait to hand my notice in!

Today i feel tired and very very sick! as well as angry but it is better than feeling nothing like the other week i guess

lilmissmup

Awww hun try not to let it get to you, although I know thats a lot easier said than done!

Remember whatever happens you are number one and don't forget that, its something thats hard to learn at times, I am only just starting to worry about me and not "him" but you need to be happy and healthy for DD too xxx

jenjade

i need to focus on me and dd. work has come first for far to long. dd will now win hands down over maoney and work she is coming first for a change

yukkibear

Sorry you had a crap night Jen, hope your job sorts out one way or another for you x

MM have you thought about maybe expanding on the jewellery so you can work for yourself? or perhaps something else working for yourself?

I'm feeling so hungover this morning, haven't had a drink for ages and went for dinner last night and drunk a whole bottle of wine and a cocktail. I knew when I was doing it it was a bad idea lol.

mariagti

Jen- Sorry to hear you have decided to leave your job, but if it making you that unhappy i dont blame you.

MM- Have you started any mystery shopping yet? I know they dont pay much but every little helps hey.

Lilmiss- Glad your trying to think of yourself and not your ex anymore, i know its hard but one day it will just click in your mind and you will think what on earth did i see in him.

YB- Hehehe on the hangover! I think i would be like that, i dont drink at all! I cant remember the last time i had a alcholic drink!

moneymabel

Hi all,what a total !!!!! your manager is Jen-don't blame you for leaving . I will stay on SSP for as long as I can I think,was feeling guilty about that but the bosses are such !!!!!! that I don't care now.
Haven't started mystery shopping, the one I've applied for is an online one and won't hear for about a month. Am hoping the jewellery will pick up in the spring time and am also looking into something to buy and sell on Ebay.
I would have left this job anyway if I had the nerve (which I didn't ) perhaps this has happened to get me out of there!

moneymabel

oops on the hangover yb-it's a killer isn't it!!

stacy

Hey Jen and everyone, seems everyone is having a crappy year hope 2010 will be looking up. Jen i hate managers like that, your face just doesnt fit with her and nothing will be good enough, really annoys me when work places are like that!

You lot might already know this but virgin bingo do a free daily scratchcard its just like tab bingo but the money goes in as cash not bonus.

I have only just found it and so happy i get to do free scratchcards again yay!! :j

moneymabel

Hi stacy-how are you doing hun? Yep hopefully 2010 will be the I want it now thread year!
I've tried to register for virgin Bingo before but I never got an email (not in spam or anything) might try again tho now you've reminded me-thanks!

stacy

hey im good thanks mm, well as good as can be still have debts coming out of my ears and being emergency taxed isnt helping lol. Just want a good job again, applied for what i used to do for another company its speculative applications so theyre saying there are currently no jobs for the position (they usually advertise around march-may) so i guess atleast its a start. And looking on the positives about applying for the job are a) im a female b) im already half trained in their eyes c) i live close to the depot meaning no commuting :j

yeah give it another go ive had an account with them before and it let me sign up a new account, yay to free money im feeling positive already!