Removing my name from our mortgage

gizmo111

www.ondivorce.co.uk

Conrad

You are stuck with the mortgage. It sounds as if she wants to return to the home with YOUR children - so you will surely be happy to stay on the mortgage to ensure they have a secure home. Kids are for life and a million times more important to me than any new girlfreind with her needs would be.

I bought children into the world and I'll damn well see it through and put thier needs way above mine no matter what.

silvercar

Conrad wrote: »

You are stuck with the mortgage. It sounds as if she wants to return to the home with YOUR children - so you will surely be happy to stay on the mortgage to ensure they have a secure home. Kids are for life and a million times more important to me than any new girlfreind with her needs would be.

I bought children into the world and I'll damn well see it through and put thier needs way above mine no matter what.

Were they expensive?

ivegotacrazyexwife

Conrad wrote: »

You are stuck with the mortgage. It sounds as if she wants to return to the home with YOUR children - so you will surely be happy to stay on the mortgage to ensure they have a secure home. Kids are for life and a million times more important to me than any new girlfreind with her needs would be.

I bought children into the world and I'll damn well see it through and put thier needs way above mine no matter what.

Cheers for the parenting tip.

Believe me when I say my main concern is my children. I have offered more than she would be entitled to via the CSA and as much as I can afford. The issue I have is that she wants the UK mortgage covered in addition to maintenance payments. This I cannot afford hence the question.

Do not judge unless you know all the facts and believe me in this instance there are a million of those and I do not care to share them on an internet forum. The question was regarding my mortgage and not my parenting skills.