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Do I need a veil?

Hi everyone, just a quick question. We are having a late afternoon civil ceremony in a hotel and I was wondering if I really need a veil. I'm not overly keen on them, but should I have one because it's tradition or not? i was thinking of just having a tiara or a fascinator instead. Any opinions are welcome, Tiger x
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  • I am not having a veil as when I put my hair up you have to have the veil hanging low below you hair up bit (if that makes sense!) I think this looks daft, if I was having my hair down I would have one.
    I am just having a sparkly tiara x
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  • sal-ad_daze
    sal-ad_daze Posts: 889 Forumite
    It's your day, you have whatever you want and whatever you feel comfortable with!
  • MsChazzer
    MsChazzer Posts: 701 Forumite
    Have whatever you want, whatever you're comfortable with and what suits you. Whether it's jeans and tshirt or a fancy big wedding dress complete with a veil and trimmings, it does not matter at all.

    I'm not having a veil, thought it would look too fussy with my dress.
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  • Minxy_Bella
    Minxy_Bella Posts: 1,948 Forumite
    I'm not having a veil. I'd feel a bit daft with one tbh, just not my thing. I'm having a tiara with diamonte skulls instead!
  • gill_81uk
    gill_81uk Posts: 2,851 Forumite
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    I didn't think I would want a veil (civil ceremony like you) but when the sales assistant put one on me it looked amazing! There is no way I will take it off even in the evening now!!

    I have a fairly plain dress and am wearing my hair down.
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  • angelavdavis
    angelavdavis Posts: 4,714 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    I didn't wear a tiara or veil, just had some crystal hairjewels in my hair:

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    :D Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!:D
  • Hi Angela, your pic is beautiful. I think my mind is now made up to just having a crystal something or other in my hair and no veil, my theme is burgundy and crystal so will fit perfectly. Thanks for all your help, Tiger x
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  • angelavdavis
    angelavdavis Posts: 4,714 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Best of luck for your big day Tiger! x
    :D Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!:D
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    I didn't have a veil. I bought a hairband with fake pearls on from Accesorize to hold my hair back and that was it.
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