We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Hi everybody - Getting stuffed by estranged wife and Natwest......

Hi All, I'm new to this and appreciate that I could probably have eventually answered all my own questions by trawling through the zillions of posts on here but find myself somewhat time-poor.....

The situation as it stands...

My wife and I have been separated for almost a year now. At the point of separation there was a joint overdraft and consolidation loan outstanding. She insisted that I pay nothing into the bank as that would 'mess up her benefit claim'

She has since refused to discuss the outstanding amounts, and Natwest first started freezing my personal current account 'to get my attention' then they sent it to Triton Credit services without notifying me. Got a letter from Triton, phoned them, they told me that their systems were down and someone would call me back, no callback later, I chased them and they said it had been sent to someone else. In the meantime, Natwest have closed all the accounts both in joint names and my personal account (which was in credit) and the file has now gone to Allied International......

I called Allied International, and after advising them that I was recording the call was put through to a relatively polite if somewhat impatient individual who professes to be an "Individual Case Manager"

Firstly, he says that AIC have been 'appointed' by Natwest, ( they have not bought the loan ), and that Natwest have only given them instructions to chase ME when as far as I am aware both the overdraft and loan are debts for which we are jointly liable.

He is currently checking back with Natwest regarding this, and reckons that if it is a joint debt that if we each pay 25% of the outstanding balance as a lump sum, the debt will be written off. I have given him permission to text me on a spare number to let me know when to call him, as I have advised I will not take a call that I cannot record.

OK so far, they're not scaring or intimidating me. He reckons that a CCA request should be sent to Natwest and not them. The debt is just under £7K.

Any advice, effective delaying tactics or useful information gratefully received. The current loan which is in default is a loan which my wife was sold to pay off the previous loan and overdraft. I know I'm rambling a bit - sorry! I've had to educate myself in a hurry and feel a little out of my depth at the moment, but am fairly confident I can eventually achieve a sensible outcome if someone would only do their ~@*^% job right.

If I need to be sending special letters or whatever I need to be doing it quickly, I guess. Please HEEEEEEEEEEEELLLP!!!!!

Comments

  • estranged wife

    Excuse me for this but reading that quickly in one glance before looking again I read 'strange wife'. lol
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,192 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    OK

    Bit more education

    1. You cannot request a CCA for a bank account.

    2. You need to open a new basic bank account so you have something to work with.

    3. If the loan was not signed by you, then it is her problem not yours. There is a good chance if this is recent and from a reputable bank (cough) that the paperwork will be legally enforceable.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.4K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.7K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.6K Life & Family
  • 259.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.