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engagement present

Looking for a bit of guidance on what to buy someone as an engagement present when you only know one half of the couple getting engaged. Also I'm not particularly close to the girl getting engaged, but she is in my circle of friends.

My budget is about £10/15

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  • Neeny82
    Neeny82 Posts: 342 Forumite
    When I got engaged I received a couple of lovely presents, even though we never had a party or anything.

    I would normally only buy a card if I was not particularly close to the couple who had got engaged.

    Anyway...ideas for you.

    Next do a pack of 4 lovely wine glasses - they are about £15. We received these from a friend of my Oh's and we were really pleased with them.

    Another friend bought us a lovely vase

    Apart from that though it was mainly cards and bottles of wine, cava etc.

    I wouldn't go overboard if they are not that close!

    Hope this helps
    :D Finally decided to start growing up when it comes to money!:j
  • I never received a single engagement present and I wasn't expecting any either. I don't expect people to buy for both engagement and wedding!

    If I did I would be happy to get a bottle of bubbly and a card.

    x
  • shop-to-drop
    shop-to-drop Posts: 4,340 Forumite
    I would buy a bottle of bubbly and a card if I were you.
    :j Trytryagain FLYLADY - SAYE £700 each month Premium Bonds £713 Mortgage Was £100,000@20/6/08 now zilch 21/4/15:beer: WTL - 52 (I'll do it 4 MUM)
  • xJayJayx
    xJayJayx Posts: 616 Forumite
    We got lots of cards and drink! But i didn't expect or want anything just for people to turn up to our engagement drinks, which they did!
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    how about a really nice photo frame for a pic of the 2 of them?

    Again, I never expected anything when I got engaged, didn't even bother with drinks etc!
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • morg_monster
    morg_monster Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    we didn't have an engagement "do" at all, we got a lot of cards with nice words in which I was really touched by, especially from old friends of my parents etc. I have kept them all! Got a few bottles of bubbly from our parents, my godmother, and friends who came over to our flat immediately on hearing the news. It was very indulgent to have so much champagne!!

    personally if they are having a "do", I would bring bubbly or a nice box of chocolates (can you bring alcohol if the do is in a pub?!). If they aren't having any kind of official celebration then I'd personally just send a card with some nice words in.
  • Neeny82
    Neeny82 Posts: 342 Forumite
    we didn't have an engagement "do" at all, we got a lot of cards with nice words in which I was really touched by, especially from old friends of my parents etc. I have kept them all! Got a few bottles of bubbly from our parents, my godmother, and friends who came over to our flat immediately on hearing the news. It was very indulgent to have so much champagne!!

    personally if they are having a "do", I would bring bubbly or a nice box of chocolates (can you bring alcohol if the do is in a pub?!). If they aren't having any kind of official celebration then I'd personally just send a card with some nice words in.


    I agree completely
    :D Finally decided to start growing up when it comes to money!:j
  • xJayJayx
    xJayJayx Posts: 616 Forumite
    i got an engagement present even though, like i said, i didn't want or expect anything.. i got a nice towel bale very handy because i was going to buy towels next week
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