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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    I know - I ended up feeling like crap for making him feel like I didn't trust him :o - but I know the issue wouldn't have gone away, because I will ALWAYS want to know what the risk is.

    I really regret ever meeting him, and that's the first time I've ever felt like that.
    And so you should always want to know.

    Dont you dare feel guilty hun.
    A relationship, any relationship, should ALWAYS be based on honesty and openess. He, and you, should have always be able to ask each other anything.
    Ok sometimes these questions might be difficult but, you should both be able to answer them honestly without any qualms. If he cared about you he would have no difficulty in discussing everything with you.

    Seems to me he wants to have his cake and eat it too.

    :grouphug:
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Not long til Florida now jinkly~Enjoy :)
    I know:j:j:j:j:j

    thanks hun:kiss:
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  • System
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    sallyx wrote: »
    yeah fabby sub 20k Lenster :) How you feeling today? Has your cabin warmed up?
    Cheers Sally, Im feeling a little better tomorrow. Big day tomorrow and the 'clothes' I have to wear are snug at best so I decided to do something about it.....Eat a bag of M+Ms :D ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm You need to dole out some punishment me thinks. I should have gone for a run today or go to the gym but i did neither. Hit me with your rhythm stick
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  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,556 Forumite
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    Well done Lenny.

    ((huggs)) to Snaggs, stay away from the shiite bloke!
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  • System
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    Hello Jinky Twinky :wave:
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,725 Ambassador
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    lennymfo wrote: »
    Cheers Beanie. Have you recovered yet?

    Hi Lenny Im fine thanks :)
    Just a wee bit tired.
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    Hello Jinky Twinky :wave:
    :hello: Lenny:D
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,725 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Lenny Are you off on your travels again soon?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • System
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    sallyx wrote: »
    yeah fabby sub 20k Lenster :) How you feeling today? Has your cabin warmed up?
    Yes, I got the towel heater on lol
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  • System
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    jinky67 wrote: »
    :hello: Lenny:D
    You gonna post from the sunshine state?
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