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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,684 Forumite
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    50broke wrote: »
    Other adult ex but not moved out .. yet due to having no home and yes he does not work!! and yes I live in the sticks!! painful dream

    thanks


    i that case, you need to stop keeping him.

    He needs to start contributing to your household costs. They will let him sign up for JSA, even though it may take time to get the message accroos re split.

    Can you take a lodger, as this is tax-free incoem for £4750 per year?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • 50broke
    50broke Posts: 106 Forumite
    Thanks RAS,
    house is going on market soon, Im going to stay with family and offer F&F to creditors .mortgage is capital repatment, oil is high as house is old and big, but should drop lower in summer when off. Will cut out food, wont feed him.. hahahahah
  • 50broke
    50broke Posts: 106 Forumite
    Have to drive 80 miles a day to work, old cars, includes breakdown cover...
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,684 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    In the short-term can you go interest only and skin the budget, sell stuff (declutter) and you might be able to do this without doing a DMP?

    if the house sells fastish.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
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