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Is it just me???

Not strictly for the DFW board but got to ask :smileyhea :smileyhea

Since joing the mse do you find yourself spending more time on here justifying it by getting money saving ideas.
Checking your subscribed threads for new postings, following up on peoples stories etc...

When you should be doing something else. :smileyhea :smileyhea

I know I do cannot help myself. :o:o

Got a son in my ear at the mo desperate to chat to his friends.

In a minute is the usual response.( that was thirty minutes ago)!!!!!

Messy
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  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    Absolutely! Whole days are wasted on here.

    I don't justify it by looking for deals or tips, I just enjoy it! And besides, the closer I feel to the community on here the less I want to let the side down by being silly with my money. Sounds strange but that's how it feels!

    Its a perfect diversion activity when I have essays to write or dishes to wash or packing of suitcase to do (all apply right now!!).

    But if everyone did what they should be doing there'd be no-one to talk to!
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
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  • serena
    serena Posts: 2,387 Forumite
    YESYes

    Guilty as charged... :smileyhea
    It is never too late to become what you were always intended to be
  • James240
    James240 Posts: 16,391 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    yep totally agree spend most of my time on here these days as it keeps me focused and stops me spending money i dont have ....
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  • whatamess_2
    whatamess_2 Posts: 2,956 Forumite
    I don't justify it by looking for deals or tips, I just enjoy it! And besides, the closer I feel to the community on here the less I want to let the side down by being silly with my money. Sounds strange but that's how it feels!

    Couldnt have put it better.

    My lightbulb is still flickering a lot at the mo.
    But every time I think "I know I have still got X left on the credit card balance" i think of here :grouphug: :grouphug:
    Messy
  • serena
    serena Posts: 2,387 Forumite
    Hi Messy,

    I like the bit someone else said about credit limits - they are a limit, not a target!


    I would say, ' I haven't got x left to spend - that is x extra debt I could pile up and I am not going to.'
    It is never too late to become what you were always intended to be
  • kathfisch wrote:
    I don't justify it by looking for deals or tips, I just enjoy it! And besides, the closer I feel to the community on here the less I want to let the side down by being silly with my money. Sounds strange but that's how it feels!

    I couldn't agree more - I'm an MSE bore and love spending time on here - think am getting withdrawal symptons when I can't get on!

    scottishspendaholic x
    MBNA = £4,000 / Next = £925 (approx. tbc on 19/8)
    Tesco = £2,910.11 / Smile overdraft = £500
    Bank of Scotland = £2,782.83
  • whatamess_2
    whatamess_2 Posts: 2,956 Forumite
    serena wrote:
    Hi Messy,

    I like the bit someone else said about credit limits - they are a limit, not a target!


    I would say, ' I haven't got x left to spend - that is x extra debt I could pile up and I am not going to.'


    Three weeks ago I would have said it was a target and boy was I going to reach it. :o:o

    Now thanks to all here it has helped me wake up.
    That and a Banker (that is a miss spelling of a rude word) of a husband.

    Messy
  • Locana
    Locana Posts: 478 Forumite
    James240 wrote:
    yep totally agree spend most of my time on here these days as it keeps me focused and stops me spending money i dont have ....


    I totally agree!!!!! This is a very supportive place to be!!!
  • Messy, you sounded just like me then. I feel I am saying "in a minute" to my son all the time. My whole family think I spend all my time on this computer. I now have to tell myself if I do an hour of ironing I can go on it. Otherwise the ironing will not get done.

    Still what a great site and so glad I found it.
  • tango
    tango Posts: 13,110 Forumite
    hi,only a member since january,already getting to know everyones "names". i don't even check my bank details online as much as i should!!
    my daughter said the other day" oh mother not that stupid mse, i NEED to go on msn!!" :grinheart
    Obstacles are things a person sees when he takes his eyes off his goal.
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