feeling extremely low !!!!

Dazwright

My head is spinning today just got my pay slip and found court order for £256 on it that i knew nothing about !!!! am just ready to sign for house and hoped to somehow use the house to raise enough to clear debts think i'm gonna have to ring CCCS or something, just split from wife and she left me with 42 k of her debts transfered onto my card...life seems very very dark today and struggling to see life beyond this really i am

Tim_Nicholas

Good Morning

Can you not give the debt back to her ?

HHH_2

Please give someone a call CCCS or CAB or even the samaritans. It's difficult to see a way through when you're feeeling down but here will be one. the people on this board are testament to that. can you give a bit more info for people to work with?

Tixy

Hi Daz

You need to find out what the court order relates to if you don't already know. Do this asap. It is possible it will affect your house purchase.

Well done for posting. I would recommend you post an soa http://www.makesenseofcards.com/soacalc.html

and then the people on here will be able to advise you on the way forward.
Hoping to raise finance on a house you don't yet have to clear your debts doesn't sound very feasible but hopefully we can fnd a better way to tackle them.

I'm sorry you are having dark day but tackling things should help you. Try talking to someone family or as HHH suggests maybe the samaritans. Or if you post on here people are really supportive. There is life beyond this for you.

Martin says there is nor debt problem that can't be sorted - yours won't be the exception.
Tixy

silvadebtfree

Hi

Just wanted to see if you're ok...def try and see if you can do anything about the 42k your wife left you with as thats a huge burden.

chin up and hugs

laura2481

hi, just wanted to say i hope everything worked out ok. It might be an error. A friend once had deductions direct from her wage for council tax arrears but she knew nothing about it and it turned out to be an error (she had actually paid her bill!). Hope it is something similar for you